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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Jan 29, 2024

It’s normal to want to put our best selves forward on a first date . . . but sometimes this makes us hide who we really are. And that’s a shame, because someone may not see the real version of us—the one they’d want to see again and again.

So how do you create authentic attraction early on? What are the things you could do that would make someone excited for a second date with you?

In today’s new episode, I share 3 natural ways to get and keep someone’s interest on a first date and beyond. 

Jan 26, 2024
Do you feel like everything has changed in the dating scene? Is it making you feel like you have to settle because so many people no longer want commitment?

In this clip, Matthew talks about what it's like when we go through difficult experiences and come back onto the dating scene, what happens as we get older and are looking for a relationship, and how you can approach finding love with a new perspective.

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Jan 24, 2024
We all have made mistakes in our past. And some of those we've made in relationships can not only be the most painful, but being honest about the, can effect how future partners see us.

So how do you know if someone has grown and changed after a past mistake? And when should you share those with someone you're dating (especially if it's something egregious like cheating). 

Matt and Audrey sit down in this episode to talk about moving past mistakes and whether you can trust someone who has cheated in the past.

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Jan 23, 2024

You may not know this, but you probably have an unconscious dating mindset.

We all do. It might be learned from our parents, an early relationship, or any other kind of formative childhood experience, but it affects so much of our behavior when we meet someone we like.

In today’s new video, I’m going to share 3 of the most dangerous dating mindsets to avoid, and one powerful mindset that will let you enjoy the process while naturally attracting the person you really want.

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Jan 19, 2024
We often learn our attachment style very early in life. And it can go on to affect all of our romantic relationships. But how? And to what extent should we excuse people's behaviour because of their attachment style?

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, what they mean, and how we can our awareness of them use to navigate relationships.

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Jan 17, 2024

How often do you look at yourself and feel great in what you wear? Does your wardrobe fill you with dread or make you feel joy?

In this episode, my wife Audrey and I had an amazing conversation with fashion expert Cassandra Sethi. We talked about how to find clothing that makes you feel confident in your own skin, which items are worth spending money on (and which aren't), and how to put together a wardrobe with outfits that best suit your own personal style.

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Connect with Cassandra

Blog → https://nextlevelwardrobe.com

Insta → https://www.instagram.com/nextlevelwardrobe

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Jan 15, 2024

It’s a dating mystery: Why would someone invest in dating you and then walk away?

They take you on a romantic trip, buy you an amazing gift, or tell you they’re falling for you . . . right before breaking up with you? What were they thinking?!

In today’s new episode, I share the reasons why someone might lead you on, and how you can use it as fuel to get over them faster and find your person.

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Jan 12, 2024

So this wasn’t the video we’d planned to release this week . . . 

But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn’t wait to talk about it.

The video this week is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better.  

Your coach,  

Matthew x  

P.S. Which revelation surprised you the most? I look forward to reading your thoughts as we continue this discussion . . . which has already become one of my favorites.  

 

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Jan 10, 2024

In this brand new episode, I sit down with my wife Audrey to talk about why people fear commitment and whether people are less inclined towards marriage in 2024.

With the prevalence of dating apps it can feel like we have more options than ever, but people feel it's even more difficult to find their ideal partner. We discuss what has changed in modern dating, reasons for optimism when it comes to commitment, how you can influence someone's view on what commitment means, and how to improve your communication to have a healthy relationship.

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Jan 8, 2024

Have you ever been stuck in “relationship limbo”? If you have, you know how much it sucks . . .

But how can you find the people who are actually ready for commitment, and increase the odds of them wanting it with YOU?

The truth is, there are actually people who—like you—are working on themselves and looking for a true relationship. In today’s new video, I’ll show you how to avoid the time-wasters and game-players . . . and I’ll also reveal the #1 trait that makes someone want to get serious.

Be sure to listen to the whole thing (and watch the full video and hear about a brand-new free training happening this month that you won’t want to miss!)

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Jan 5, 2024

You can set your watch to it. They flake or break up with you . . . you spend weeks — in fact, months — hurting and getting over them, and just as you realize you no longer think about them all the time and begin to feel happy again, you get the text.
 
“Hey, how you doing?”
 
Does this sound familiar? I suspect it does . . .
 
So what is this phenomenon? Why do they always come back? What does it mean? And more importantly, what do you SAY when they do?
 
In today’s episode, I talk about 5 possible reasons why they come back.

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Jan 1, 2024
Want to find love in 2024?

Now is the time when everyone is making New Year’s resolutions. It’s fun and I love that feeling of optimism before January begins. But we also know how hard it is to break old habits and patterns—and end up feeling a sense of failure and frustration if we don’t reach our goals . . .

In today’s new video, I share with you the #1 resolution you should focus on this year to move toward a successful love life.

►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
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►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
 
Dec 29, 2023

Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them?

Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s episode) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you.

Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs.

We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?”

Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode.

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Dec 27, 2023
What’s the best way to think strategically about finding love in the coming year?

In this episode I had a chance to speak with the excellent Ali Abdaal who offers practical insights on productivity and simple habits you can adopt to improve your live and maximize your chances of finding your partner.

Grab a copy of Ali’s awesome book “Feel Good Productivity” - available now! 

>>> Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps.
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Dec 25, 2023
If you’re dealing with loss, sickness, or loneliness, this time of year can serve to magnify whatever you’re going through. 
 
So in this weekend’s new episode, I wanted to do something a little different . . .

While this message is for anyone who needs a boost during the holidays, it’s especially for those in the middle of a “complicated Christmas.”
 
And today I want you to know that you’re not alone. 
 
Listen to this message and please do drop me a comment after you watch. I’d love for us all to feel more connected and help people know that others understand what they’re going through right now.
 
Happy holidays,
Matthew
Dec 22, 2023

You know those tricky early dates?

You go for drinks. Maybe a walk. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy a similar taste in movies.

Then texting.

Then maybe a kiss.

Uh-oh, now you actually like them. Crap. I mean, great!

Now what?

If you want to know how to keep the attraction well after the first date, so you can finally stop overthinking and show your best self, this is the episode for you . . .

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Dec 18, 2023

Here’s a common problem I hear,

You feel ready for a relationship. You’ve worked hard to improve yourself and you have high standards for the person you want to be with long-term . . . but no one you date meets your standards.

I know it can be so frustrating—but this feeling can lead to some dangerous mindsets that get in our way of finding love . . . often without us even realizing it.

So in today’s episode, I’ll show you 3 powerful mindset shifts that will help you attract the right person faster so you can avoid self-sabotage and burnout as you search for the love you’re looking for.

Excited for you to hear this one.

Matthew x

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Dec 15, 2023

Have you ever had someone come into your life, dazzle you with their initial investment and attention, only to disappear as fast as they came?

This phenomenon has been nicknamed “Love Bombing,” and it can be very painful, especially when you were led to believe it was going somewhere.

You may be asking yourself why someone would do this. In this week’s rewind episode I’ll show you…

My hope is that this episode will not only give you a sense of closure, but also help you to move past the heartache you are feeling right now if this has happened to you. I also show you how to avoid it in the future.

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Dec 11, 2023
How do you know if someone’s really over their ex?
 
Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also haven’t 100% gotten over the heartbreak of their last relationship. Of course, the first questions you ask yourself are: “Is this a huge red flag? Does it mean they are emotionally unavailable? Should I walk away?”
 
This is a really important topic in today’s episode, and my answer to this probably isn’t what you’d expect. 
 
Give it a watch to find out the signs you can look out for to discern whether someone is truly a bad bet or if they have real potential. 
 
 
Dec 8, 2023

Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with someone is?

Should you let them know you’d like to go on a date with them? And what about after the date. . .

Should you let them know you’d like to see them again if you felt the date went well but they're not being proactive about setting up another one?

Where is the line between showing someone you like them, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested?

It can be tricky. But I want to make it simple.

You may have heard me say, “Invest in those who invest in you.” But that could leave you wondering to yourself: “Fine Matthew, but so often that means I’m doing nothing because no one is investing in me! And doesn’t someone need to take the first step to invest something if anything is ever going to happen?”

It’s a valid point. I’ll show you exactly how to solve this at the end of the episode, so make sure you listen all the way through.

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Dec 4, 2023

It’s not always easy to tell the difference between friendliness, playful affection, and genuine romantic feelings.

In today’s episode, I dive into the psychology of attraction to share 31 subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that can reveal someone’s intentions.

Whether you’re flirting with someone you’ve just met, or wondering if the person you’ve been dating for a while wants to be more serious, this compliation will help you decode how they really feel!

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Dec 1, 2023

Life is too short to put off our happiness until we reach certain milestones.

It's great to make finding a relationship a goal, but the journey to getting there from being single doesn't have to be an arduous and unpleasant one.

Too many people don't realise how much joy and happiness they can find when they are single and haven't met the right person yet.

In this episode, I'll show you some simple ways to actually enjoy your single life and meet your needs when you're still looking for love.

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Nov 27, 2023
What’s the best way to go from casual to committed when you’re dating someone?
 
There are two important things to remember here:
 
• Our standards are a HUGE influence on someone’s decision to commit.
• We’re more likely to drop our standards when we really like someone.
 
So how do you show your standards in a confident way (without seeming demanding or needy)?
 
In today’s episode, I share the best advice I’ve given on this topic through the years to raise your value in their eyes and build lasting attraction. Don’t miss it!

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Nov 24, 2023

Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man?

What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out?

If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, my new video is essential watching today . . . 

Let me know what you think.

 

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Nov 20, 2023
Some very exciting news to share today . . . 
 
I made a movie!
 
And it’s not just any film . . . it’s a romantic comedy special that will transform your love life while you watch it.
 
We’ve gathered the very best moments from my last live tour to create The Love Mythsa 90-minute movie that’s been years in the making, and we’ve now set a date for its exclusive premiere and live Q&A next month.
 
This is an event you can’t miss, and in today’s video, I give you all the details on how you can join me.

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