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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Jun 9, 2023

 Does the pursuit of a “soulmate” hold you back from finding love?

In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew look at what happens when we get caught in the obsession of trying to find “The One” and how best to decide what you’re looking for in the right relationship.

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Jun 5, 2023

When is the appropriate time to ask where a relationship is going?

If you’ve been seeing someone for a month and are sleeping together . . . can you ask then? Should you wait four months to make sure you don’t come on too strong? Or maybe you should wait for THEM to ask you? And if they don’t bring it up . . . is that a bad sign?

The truth is, we often don’t feel like we can ask because we’re afraid of the answer.

In today’s episode, I share three perspectives that can shift your mindset when it comes to discussing the future of your relationship, so you can finally break free from fear and build a relationship guided by open communication and shared values.

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Jun 2, 2023
We often feel like attraction is not a choice in dating. But the decision of who we choose for a life partner is 100% a decision, and it requires us to deeply understand what we value and what qualities will make us happy long-term.

In this episode, Matt and the JAMS team discuss how to think about your "type" in dating, the mistakes we make in choosing certain partners, and how to escape toxic cycles in our dating life.

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May 31, 2023

"What if you're so afraid of rocking the boat with someone you REALLY like that you forget to uphold your biggest standards?"

It's such a common story: we fall for someone, find ourselves thinking we can't live without them, and compromise on everything in the hopes of making them happy. 

Today, Matthew explains how to deal with this scarcity mindset and keep your confidence and self-worth even when you're afraid your standards might cause you to lose someone...

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May 29, 2023

How do you really know if you're dating "The One"? Do you just know when it's right, or are there signs this person is the perfect partner for you?

In this episode, you'll learn 5 of the most important questions you must answer before you decide on long-term commitment.

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May 26, 2023
When you fall for someone, it's all-too-easy to misinterpret signs of their affection or presence as signs of them wanting a future commitment.

But unfortunately, there are all kinds of reasons someone might keep you close even if they don't want something serious. In this clip, Matt and the JAMS crew discuss how to protect yourself and be aware when your situation doesn't have a future.

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May 22, 2023

We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . .

But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected.

Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our needs can be ignored with no repercussions . . .
 
In today’s new episode, you’ll learn the best way to increase attraction and investment in a way that doesn’t diminish your value or make you feel like a nuisance simply for stating your needs.

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May 19, 2023
It's hard enough dealing with a toxic relationship, but it's even worse if you don't have a strong sense of boundaries to put up when you see behaviour you shouldn't tolerate.

In this clip, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson discuss how to implement self-care to protect yourself when you have the tendency to sacrifice your needs for others.

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May 17, 2023
I'm super excited to share this excellent conversation I had with podcaster Candice Horbacz, host of "Chatting With Candice".

In this episode, we talk about:

- Finding the relationship that works for YOU
- The journey of trust and opening up to your partner
- Understand the truth about men and their feelings
- Overcoming jealousy in a relationship

There's tons of great takeaways and Candice has some really powerful insights from her own past and experience. I can't wait for you to check it out!

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May 15, 2023

Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away?

It feels awful.

You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special.

I’ve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in today’s new episode, I’ll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging the relationship (or help you move on to find the RIGHT person for you).

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May 12, 2023
Have you ever felt like the moment you show you really like someone, they start to lose interest?

It can make you feel like you ALWAYS have to play games or be "hard-to-get" in order to keep their attention. But is this really true?

In this episode, Matthew and Stephen explain the reasons this can happen and what it really means if someone backs off when you decide you like them.

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May 8, 2023

We've all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we'll lose all our "power," but if we show too little, they may not even realize we're interested.
In today's brand-new episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person.

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May 5, 2023
We all know flirting is an essential part of attraction, but how do you actually do it?

In this clip, Matthew and Stephen talk about some of the subtle, practical ways you can go from casual conversation to flirtation on a first date.

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May 3, 2023
Have you found yourself checking up on an ex on social media after a break up? Maybe you even found yourself jealous upon finding out they were doing well, or found someone else, or had a success that you don't get to be a part of.

In this solo episode, Matt discusses what it means when we overly focus on our ex's life after a break up and how we can get over comparing ourselves to our previous partners. If you want to value yourself and know what really gives you your worth, make sure you hear this message.

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May 1, 2023

Have you ever stayed with someone in spite of them saying they weren't interested in something serious?

Perhaps you'd hoped that with enough time, they'd see your value, realize what you have together is special, and decide to get into a relationship in spite of their fears . . .

We've all heard of situations where someone did just need a bit of time to change their mind about commitment, so how can we tell a dead-end situation from one that actually has potential?

Don't miss this week's brand-new episode to find out! 

 

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Apr 28, 2023
Sometimes you have to let someone go because of the pain they bring to your life. But what if they seem to improve their behaviour with their next partner?!

It can be incredibly frustrating to see an ex who appears to be fixing their issues that previously drove you crazy now the relationship is over. You have an envy for their new partner who seems to be getting the best side of them.

How do you get over your feeling of resentment? And how do you stop worrying that his bad behaviour was somehow YOUR fault?

In this clip, Matt and Stephen discuss how to move on from the past and be free of resentment for your old relationship.

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Apr 26, 2023
Ever struggled with a failure you weren’t sure how to recover from? Want to live an adventurous, inspired, and happier life?
 
In this episode, I’m joined for a hugely thought-provoking conversation with Christopher Robbins, founder of Soul Degree.
 
We talk about: 
  • Getting over failure and how our identity can trap us
  • How negative self-talk stops us being present
  • The importance of connection + preventing male loneliness
  • Overcoming fear of vulnerability 

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Apr 24, 2023

When it comes to the traits we want in a partner, “emotionally unavailable” is never on the list. So why do so many of us end up dating not just one emotionally unavailable person, but a series of them?

When someone feels slightly out of reach, our instinct is often to chase them down and make them ours . . . but this is often an unwinnable bet, where we risk losing not only our hearts, but also our time.
 
In today’s new episode, I get to the heart of what goes on when we keep finding ourselves getting stuck on emotionally unavailable people, and how we can break the pattern and find someone who’s ready for a relationship.

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Apr 21, 2023
You might see you're friends in relationships and wonder: "why haven't I found someone yet?".

It's tempting in these moments to self-criticise or wonder if there's something wrong with us. But in this episode, Matt and Stephen explain why you shouldn't expect your path to love to be the same as everyone else around you...

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Apr 19, 2023
In today's episode, I had the absolute pleasure of interviewing actress, entrepreneur, and screenwriter Martha Higareda. She is a beautiful soul and a wealth of knowledge of life and love.

In this conversation we cover:

- How To Recover From Heartbreak and Narcissistic Relationships
- Spotting Toxic Behaviour In Dating
- Healing your wounds and your inner child
- How To Stop Idealizing In Relationships

I'm so excited to share this conversation with you and know you'll get tons out of it!

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Apr 17, 2023

Today’s interview with Matthew McConaughey is instantly one of my most popular interviews of the last 10 years.
 
Thank you so much if you listened, subscribed, and shared this episode with your friends and family . . . you’re the reason this is reaching so many people right now.
 
One thing that’s surprised people the most is how relatable this entire interview is, and just how vulnerable he gets about what made the difference when it came to overcoming his fears and finding love.
 
He says some seriously profound things. By sharing this episode with your friends and family, we can get them to more people who need them.

Thanks again for being part of this really fun and amazing moment with me.

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Apr 14, 2023
A recent dating study showed that many people have what is known as a "backburner relationship". And many people date today while also still being in touch with exes or former sexual partners.

Is this trend dangerous for building a relationship? And what does it cost us in the long-run if we have a "backup person" who we keep contact with?

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Apr 10, 2023
Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out.
 
When you’re in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerless—holding on to someone who’s not giving you what you need. So how can you break this cycle once and for all? Don’t miss today’s brand-new episode!

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Apr 7, 2023
Have you ever had an insecurity, a jealousy, or something that hurt you or made you feel threatened, but you didn’t know the right way to bring it up?
 
Of course you have. We all have. Maybe you’re feeling that right now. It can be terrifying, can’t it?

We are told vulnerability is good, but we know it can hurt the relationship if we repeatedly express our fears and insecurities. 

But being vulnerable can actually create a deeper bond with someone, as well as reveal if they’re the right person for you in the first place.
 
The important thing is that we talk about it in the right way, as Matt and Stephen explain in this episode...

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Apr 5, 2023
We asked YOU this week how not having confidence affects your love life, and you answered!

It's only when we really ask ourselves this question that we can see all the small ways that lack of self-esteem or negative self-talk can be causing us play it safe, self-sabotage, or just live with unnecessary anxiety.

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson dive into the roots of confidence and what we can do to rewire ourselves for a more positive self-image in approaching our relationships.

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