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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Mar 4, 2024
There’s a mistake nearly all of us make in early dating . . . and it’s something we don’t even realize we’re doing. When we get nervous, we naturally slip into one of two masks as a way to protect ourselves against rejection.

In today’s new episode, I’ll show you how one simple change can not only hugely increase the connection you feel with someone, but also take the pressure out of early dating. Don’t miss it!

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Mar 1, 2024

If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early-stage dating...

If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere…

And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing differently to change that…

This video is for you.

(It also contains a very special guest who hasn’t been seen in a long time, but is demanded on a daily basis. You’re welcome.)

Can’t wait to hear what you think.

 

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Feb 29, 2024

Not long ago, I decided to do something II nearly NEVER do. My inner child was screaming at me to do anything else - but I decided to quiet that voice and go for it anyway.

Here’s what I learned from getting out of my comfort zone, doing something I was afraid of, and quieting my inner emotional resistance.

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Feb 26, 2024

Why does the end of a passionate short-term romance sometimes feel more devastating than a longer-term relationship?

It’s because short-term romances are like fireworks—explosive and exciting—only to fizzle out soon after. We get addicted to the feeling of intensity they give us, and feel empty when they disappear.

In today’s episode, I’ll show you the best way to move on from a short-term romance and stop obsessing over “the person who got away.”

►► Access My Happiness After heartbreak Series for FREE
by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at. . .
→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Feb 23, 2024
It’s so annoying.

You finally decide you like someone. You tell your friends how excited you are. You even allow yourself to imagine them as “future life partner” material.

And then suddenly...they start fading out.

They stops calling…

They become colder in conversation…

They don’t step up and commit…

It’s like the universe knows when you’ve met an amazing person, and decides to dangle them just out of reach.

Whyyyyy?

In this week’s episode, I reveal the top 5 reasons why they disappear so you never have to wonder why someone pulls away again...

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
 
►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com
Feb 22, 2024
How do you know if you’re in a narcissistic relationship? And how do toxic relationships with your parents affect your dating life today?

In this episode, Matthew sits down with world expect Dr. Ramani Durvasula to talk about her new book “It’s Not You”, narcissistic patterns, and how to protect yourself from unacceptable behaviour in relationships.

Follow Dr. Ramani: 

Instagram: @Doctorramani

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani

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►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com
Feb 21, 2024

Are you held back from your dreams by fear and self-doubt? 

Join Matt for a conversation with Jamie Kern Lima all about her new book “Worthy” and the topic of self-doubt, eliminating self-sabotage and how to get real confidence.

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Feb 19, 2024

Nothing leaves you feeling more alone than heartbreak. You feel lost, afraid, and sometimes you also feel deeply unworthy. The worst part is wondering if you’ll ever feel happy again.

But there is a way to heal, and it starts with first understanding what the source of your pain actually is. In today’s new episode, I share a way you can rewire your brain . . . not to ignore your grief, but to see it with fresh eyes and start to mend your broken heart.

►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by
Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . .
→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Feb 16, 2024
Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. 

And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted. 

What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back?

It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of anger or upset subsides, and we are left with this sinking feeling that somehow we’ve just messed it all up. 

If you can relate to being the kind of person whose emotions and anxieties can be easily triggered in a relationship, this epsidoe is really going to help you.

Let’s take back control over those emotions and put you back in the driver’s seat. And let’s learn to use our moments of friction to make our relationships even more beautiful.

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►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me →
http://www.MHRetreat.com
Feb 12, 2024

 Have you ever tried to keep someone’s attraction by “playing the game”?

Maybe you’ve been tempted to respond less to texts, or try to hide the fact you like someone, or followed dating advice that tells you to act aloof and indifferent.

In today’s episode, I want to get to the truth about “playing hard-to-get” and what really happens when you try to win attraction by playing games . . .

►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me →
http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Feb 9, 2024

Dating is tough.

The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition? 

The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.

 I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of.

 But in today’s episode, I cover the “what to say” part—specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you.

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►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by

Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . .→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

Feb 7, 2024
I recently went through an experience that felt a lot like a break up. And today I want to talk about it. 

If you've been through something like this, you'll learn one of the biggest insights that changes the entire meaning you take away from the experience of "getting dumped"

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by
Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . .
→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com
Feb 5, 2024

Do you know why heartbreak hits us as hard as it does? In today’s episode, I found the answer in an interview with the world-leading expert on grief, David Kessler.

It turns out, a lot of us are carrying around “unattended grief” that affects us in ways we don’t even realize. We often don’t give ourselves the space to fully feel what we need to in order to break free.

This new episode is an important one. Even I wasn’t prepared for what I’d feel during the conversation, so I hope you’ll join me and watch it (and let me know your thoughts afterward!)

►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by
Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . .
→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

Feb 2, 2024
Matt, Stephen, and Audrey talk about how to handle a sudden break-up that knocks you sideways and shakes your confidence.

How do you get over someone when you felt like you were fully invested in a future with them? And should you cut all contact when they try to reach out and stay friends?

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Jan 31, 2024
We asked you about what behaviours and patterns have caused the most pain in your love life. And you answered! 

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk on the topic of jealousy in a relationship, insecurity about our looks, and getting over people who don't choose you.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
 
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com

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Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey
Follow Audrey: @theaudreyhussey
Jan 29, 2024

It’s normal to want to put our best selves forward on a first date . . . but sometimes this makes us hide who we really are. And that’s a shame, because someone may not see the real version of us—the one they’d want to see again and again.

So how do you create authentic attraction early on? What are the things you could do that would make someone excited for a second date with you?

In today’s new episode, I share 3 natural ways to get and keep someone’s interest on a first date and beyond. 

Jan 26, 2024
Do you feel like everything has changed in the dating scene? Is it making you feel like you have to settle because so many people no longer want commitment?

In this clip, Matthew talks about what it's like when we go through difficult experiences and come back onto the dating scene, what happens as we get older and are looking for a relationship, and how you can approach finding love with a new perspective.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
 
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com
Jan 24, 2024
We all have made mistakes in our past. And some of those we've made in relationships can not only be the most painful, but being honest about the, can effect how future partners see us.

So how do you know if someone has grown and changed after a past mistake? And when should you share those with someone you're dating (especially if it's something egregious like cheating). 

Matt and Audrey sit down in this episode to talk about moving past mistakes and whether you can trust someone who has cheated in the past.

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►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com
Jan 23, 2024

You may not know this, but you probably have an unconscious dating mindset.

We all do. It might be learned from our parents, an early relationship, or any other kind of formative childhood experience, but it affects so much of our behavior when we meet someone we like.

In today’s new video, I’m going to share 3 of the most dangerous dating mindsets to avoid, and one powerful mindset that will let you enjoy the process while naturally attracting the person you really want.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Jan 19, 2024
We often learn our attachment style very early in life. And it can go on to affect all of our romantic relationships. But how? And to what extent should we excuse people's behaviour because of their attachment style?

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, what they mean, and how we can our awareness of them use to navigate relationships.

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Jan 17, 2024

How often do you look at yourself and feel great in what you wear? Does your wardrobe fill you with dread or make you feel joy?

In this episode, my wife Audrey and I had an amazing conversation with fashion expert Cassandra Sethi. We talked about how to find clothing that makes you feel confident in your own skin, which items are worth spending money on (and which aren't), and how to put together a wardrobe with outfits that best suit your own personal style.

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Connect with Cassandra

Blog → https://nextlevelwardrobe.com

Insta → https://www.instagram.com/nextlevelwardrobe

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►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums
Reserve Your Spot to my Virtual Event for FREE... → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

Jan 15, 2024

It’s a dating mystery: Why would someone invest in dating you and then walk away?

They take you on a romantic trip, buy you an amazing gift, or tell you they’re falling for you . . . right before breaking up with you? What were they thinking?!

In today’s new episode, I share the reasons why someone might lead you on, and how you can use it as fuel to get over them faster and find your person.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Jan 12, 2024

So this wasn’t the video we’d planned to release this week . . . 

But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn’t wait to talk about it.

The video this week is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better.  

Your coach,  

Matthew x  

P.S. Which revelation surprised you the most? I look forward to reading your thoughts as we continue this discussion . . . which has already become one of my favorites.  

 

►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums. . .
Reserve Your Spot to My Virtual Event For FREE at. . .
→ http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Jan 10, 2024

In this brand new episode, I sit down with my wife Audrey to talk about why people fear commitment and whether people are less inclined towards marriage in 2024.

With the prevalence of dating apps it can feel like we have more options than ever, but people feel it's even more difficult to find their ideal partner. We discuss what has changed in modern dating, reasons for optimism when it comes to commitment, how you can influence someone's view on what commitment means, and how to improve your communication to have a healthy relationship.

►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums. . .
Reserve Your Spot to My Virtual Event For FREE at. . .
→ http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Jan 8, 2024

Have you ever been stuck in “relationship limbo”? If you have, you know how much it sucks . . .

But how can you find the people who are actually ready for commitment, and increase the odds of them wanting it with YOU?

The truth is, there are actually people who—like you—are working on themselves and looking for a true relationship. In today’s new video, I’ll show you how to avoid the time-wasters and game-players . . . and I’ll also reveal the #1 trait that makes someone want to get serious.

Be sure to listen to the whole thing (and watch the full video and hear about a brand-new free training happening this month that you won’t want to miss!)

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

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