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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Mar 27, 2024

Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding!

In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down with their wonderful wedding planners Lynden Lane to discuss what makes the perfect wedding, how to budget for a big event, and how to create the greatest memories with as little stress as possible.

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►► Connect with Lynden Lane @lyndenlane

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Thank You to Our Wedding Vendors!

Design & Production: @lyndenlane
Photography: @sarahfalugo.co
Video: @giuliocantarella_wedding
Florals: @keithjlaverty
Paper Goods: @cecilespaperco
Venue: @dimoradellebalze
Rentals: @theark_ & @theonicollection
Stylist: @nextlevelwardrobe
Hair Stylist: @tonipellegrinoartandscience
Dress: @pronovias
DJ: @redshoela

Mar 25, 2024

People ask me a lot, “How did you meet your wife?”

Well, it wasn’t just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert like me could use to be in exactly the right place to meet Audrey when I did.

I believe anyone can apply this advice in their dating lives to find love. So if you want to maximize your chances of meeting (and attracting) someone amazing, the 3 practical steps I mention in this episode could lead you to your person . . . possibly without you ever having to swipe right!

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Ready to Get Off The Sidelines and Back Into Dating?
Catch the Replay of The Love Life Reset at. . .
→ http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com

Mar 22, 2024
If you’ve been in the early dating stages with someone, you may have noticed after a few weeks when you get one of those “uh-oh” moments.

Maybe they didn't call when they said they would. Or they're a little ignorant about something that’s important to you. Or appeared to take something you did for granted.

It might not be terrible behavior, but you know it’s behavior you don’t want to be a pattern for the rest of your relationship.

So how do you handle the conversation without letting your emotions get the better of you? I.e. without reacting in a way that would hurt rather than help the relationship...

In this week’s episode, I’m going to give 3 steps of exactly how to handle this difficult conversation, so that you can handle it in a productive way when it happens.

This is how you make them want to be a better person for you...

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again.
Watch the Replay of my Event, The Love Life Reset.
Find out How at . . .
→ The Love Life Reset REPLAY
Mar 20, 2024

What does it mean to truly accept every part of yourself? How do we let go of beating ourselves up for our mistakes and flaws and embrace who we are?

There are so many things that can knock us off our path, make us feel shame, and cause us to feel unloveable.

In this episode, Matthew explains how to build the foundations of self-compassion and stop basing our worth on the wrong things.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again.
Watch the Replay to my Event, The Love Life Reset.
Find out How at . . .
The Love Life Reset REPLAY 

Mar 18, 2024

Have you fallen for someone who just can’t give you the same affection back?

Emotionally unavailable people are the relationship version of junk food. You know it’s bad . . . but your addiction keeps you going back for more.

This is nothing more than a formula for heartbreak. In today’s new episode, I dive into the psychology behind why we’re attracted to emotionally unavailable people, and why just because something’s scarce (such as someone’s attention) doesn’t mean it’s valuable.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again.
Join My FREE Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset.
Find out How at . . .
→ http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

Mar 15, 2024
Do you ignore red flags?

Do you feel like you give too much in your relationships?

Do you brush things under the carpet when someone violates your boundaries?

If so, this week’s episode is specifically for you…

The richness and depth of a true connection can only come from giving other people the chance to reciprocate your warmth, kindness, and giving nature…

Because, while it might feel selfless or nurturing to pour into others without receiving in return – it can actually backfire, weaken your connection, and make you feel resentful.

I promise that if you find the courage to be honest, you’ll find more satisfaction, fulfillment, and happiness in your relationships.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
 
►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating?
Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset Reserve Your Spot Now at. . .
→ http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com
Mar 13, 2024
Matthew and Audrey sit down to talk about love lessons learned from the Netflix show "One Day". Topics include the danger of holding out for someone who remains a fantasy, how the love stories we tell can be intoxicating but also dangerous, and why we need to chase the right things in life.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
 
►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating?
Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset
Reserve Your Spot Now at. . .
→ http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com
Mar 11, 2024

Have you ever dated someone who seems really into you . . . only for you to find yourself in a dead-end situationship where you just want to scream, “What are we?!” every time you’re together?

Turns out there is a solution for this (and you don’t need to be a mind reader).

In today’s episode, I’ll show you some simple ways you can find out what your future would look like with someone—even early on in dating.

Be sure to watch now to learn how you can tell the difference between someone who will continue to string you along and someone who’s good relationship material.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating?
Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset
Reserve Your Spot Now at. . .
→ http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

Mar 9, 2024

People think going on a date with someone is simple.

You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah blah blah. Gulp down a few drinks. Maybe a kiss. End of story.

Well... that’s not bad.

But do you really want to be just the “not bad” person in their head?

Wouldn’t you rather they go home in a romantic haze, unable to take their mind off this new, unendingly fascinating person who they just pray will answer their texts the next day?

Thought so.

If you really want them to miss you after only 24 hours, don’t leave the first encounter without throwing in a few of these techniques...

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►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset... Sign Up Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com 

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Mar 6, 2024

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down for a conversation with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast. We cover why men don’t open up, the inner beliefs that affect our romantic relationships, healing our wounds, self-love, and how to be truly fulfilled. 

►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset... Sign Up Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com 

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Follow Rob Dial: Instagram: @Robdialjr
Podcast: The Mindset Mentor

Mar 4, 2024
There’s a mistake nearly all of us make in early dating . . . and it’s something we don’t even realize we’re doing. When we get nervous, we naturally slip into one of two masks as a way to protect ourselves against rejection.

In today’s new episode, I’ll show you how one simple change can not only hugely increase the connection you feel with someone, but also take the pressure out of early dating. Don’t miss it!

►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset...
Sign Up Now at. . .
→ http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
Mar 1, 2024

If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early-stage dating...

If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere…

And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing differently to change that…

This video is for you.

(It also contains a very special guest who hasn’t been seen in a long time, but is demanded on a daily basis. You’re welcome.)

Can’t wait to hear what you think.

 

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
 
►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com

 

 

Feb 29, 2024

Not long ago, I decided to do something II nearly NEVER do. My inner child was screaming at me to do anything else - but I decided to quiet that voice and go for it anyway.

Here’s what I learned from getting out of my comfort zone, doing something I was afraid of, and quieting my inner emotional resistance.

►► Access My Happiness After heartbreak Series for FREE
by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at. . .
→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Feb 26, 2024

Why does the end of a passionate short-term romance sometimes feel more devastating than a longer-term relationship?

It’s because short-term romances are like fireworks—explosive and exciting—only to fizzle out soon after. We get addicted to the feeling of intensity they give us, and feel empty when they disappear.

In today’s episode, I’ll show you the best way to move on from a short-term romance and stop obsessing over “the person who got away.”

►► Access My Happiness After heartbreak Series for FREE
by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at. . .
→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Feb 23, 2024
It’s so annoying.

You finally decide you like someone. You tell your friends how excited you are. You even allow yourself to imagine them as “future life partner” material.

And then suddenly...they start fading out.

They stops calling…

They become colder in conversation…

They don’t step up and commit…

It’s like the universe knows when you’ve met an amazing person, and decides to dangle them just out of reach.

Whyyyyy?

In this week’s episode, I reveal the top 5 reasons why they disappear so you never have to wonder why someone pulls away again...

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
 
►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com
Feb 22, 2024
How do you know if you’re in a narcissistic relationship? And how do toxic relationships with your parents affect your dating life today?

In this episode, Matthew sits down with world expect Dr. Ramani Durvasula to talk about her new book “It’s Not You”, narcissistic patterns, and how to protect yourself from unacceptable behaviour in relationships.

Follow Dr. Ramani: 

Instagram: @Doctorramani

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani

►► Get Dr. Ramani’s book “It’s Not You” → https://rb.gy/5pyj7t

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com
Feb 21, 2024

Are you held back from your dreams by fear and self-doubt? 

Join Matt for a conversation with Jamie Kern Lima all about her new book “Worthy” and the topic of self-doubt, eliminating self-sabotage and how to get real confidence.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com


►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me →

http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Follow Jamie on IG → @jamiekernlima

Feb 19, 2024

Nothing leaves you feeling more alone than heartbreak. You feel lost, afraid, and sometimes you also feel deeply unworthy. The worst part is wondering if you’ll ever feel happy again.

But there is a way to heal, and it starts with first understanding what the source of your pain actually is. In today’s new episode, I share a way you can rewire your brain . . . not to ignore your grief, but to see it with fresh eyes and start to mend your broken heart.

►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by
Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . .
→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Feb 16, 2024
Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. 

And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted. 

What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back?

It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of anger or upset subsides, and we are left with this sinking feeling that somehow we’ve just messed it all up. 

If you can relate to being the kind of person whose emotions and anxieties can be easily triggered in a relationship, this epsidoe is really going to help you.

Let’s take back control over those emotions and put you back in the driver’s seat. And let’s learn to use our moments of friction to make our relationships even more beautiful.

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►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me →
http://www.MHRetreat.com
Feb 12, 2024

 Have you ever tried to keep someone’s attraction by “playing the game”?

Maybe you’ve been tempted to respond less to texts, or try to hide the fact you like someone, or followed dating advice that tells you to act aloof and indifferent.

In today’s episode, I want to get to the truth about “playing hard-to-get” and what really happens when you try to win attraction by playing games . . .

►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me →
http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Feb 9, 2024

Dating is tough.

The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition? 

The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.

 I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of.

 But in today’s episode, I cover the “what to say” part—specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you.

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►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by

Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . .→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

Feb 7, 2024
I recently went through an experience that felt a lot like a break up. And today I want to talk about it. 

If you've been through something like this, you'll learn one of the biggest insights that changes the entire meaning you take away from the experience of "getting dumped"

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by
Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . .
→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com
Feb 5, 2024

Do you know why heartbreak hits us as hard as it does? In today’s episode, I found the answer in an interview with the world-leading expert on grief, David Kessler.

It turns out, a lot of us are carrying around “unattended grief” that affects us in ways we don’t even realize. We often don’t give ourselves the space to fully feel what we need to in order to break free.

This new episode is an important one. Even I wasn’t prepared for what I’d feel during the conversation, so I hope you’ll join me and watch it (and let me know your thoughts afterward!)

►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by
Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . .
→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

Feb 2, 2024
Matt, Stephen, and Audrey talk about how to handle a sudden break-up that knocks you sideways and shakes your confidence.

How do you get over someone when you felt like you were fully invested in a future with them? And should you cut all contact when they try to reach out and stay friends?

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
 
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com
 
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Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey
Follow Audrey: @theaudreyhussey
Jan 31, 2024
We asked you about what behaviours and patterns have caused the most pain in your love life. And you answered! 

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk on the topic of jealousy in a relationship, insecurity about our looks, and getting over people who don't choose you.

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
 
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com

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Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey
Follow Audrey: @theaudreyhussey
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