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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Now displaying: July, 2020
Jul 30, 2020
"Too many people in the single world waste time and emotion pursuing TERRIBLE leads.
 
They date men and women who don’t invest in them, they spend hours waiting for texts back only to get one-word answers, and they chase intimacy from people who only want attention/sex/validation...
 
I don’t have a dog in this fight. Being in a relationship can be incredible. But being single is also AMAZING and gets taken for granted way more often...."
 
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Jul 27, 2020

I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had.

If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self.

When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories.

But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food.

It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me.... 

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Jul 23, 2020

Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship? Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more?

It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling.

I know because I’ve felt it.

It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia.

We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently. And this feeling isn’t limited to situations that have ended.

Sometimes we are still seeing someone but we have this crippling anxiety over having irreversibly damaged the relationship.

We feel we’ve created a perception of ourselves in that person’s eyes that we can’t now undo.

If for any of these reasons you are currently torturing yourself, this episode will be life-saving for you today. Trust me when I say it is essential.

I break down for you why you don’t need to be wallowing in pain, and why, despite everything that destructive voice inside is saying, you actually have reason to feel good today.

Please also share this with someone you know who may be beating herself up right now.

Life’s too short for any of us to suffer needlessly. I’m with you, friend. You’re loved. 

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Jul 19, 2020

I can’t tell you how many people I’ve coached who can’t let go of the past.

Women who are still hating themselves for dating the wrong guy for so many years.

Women who feel they’ve wasted their career so far. Women who still let an old family trauma affect their mood every... single... day.

I know these things are hard.

Believe me, I’m not pretending these are small problems.

But if you want to know how to break free, let go of your baggage, and feel 100% more empowered, please, please make sure you hear this message.

I’m going to share a mind-blowing story that will show how you can turn even the worst tragedies into a beautiful future... 

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Jul 15, 2020

Have you ever had someone come into your life, dazzle you with their initial investment and attention, only to disappear as fast as they came?


This phenomenon has been nicknamed “Love Bombing,” and it can be very painful, especially when you were led to believe it was going somewhere. 


You may be asking yourself why someone would do this. In this week’s episode I’ll show you…


My hope is that this will not only give you a sense of closure, but also help you to move past the heartache you are feeling right now if this has happened to you. I also show you how to avoid it in the future. 


Here for you, friend.

Matthew x

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Jul 13, 2020

Are the most attractive people always the most confident? Is insecurity always an attraction-killer, or is it more important to own your flaws?

In today's episode Matt gives his take on the topic of insecurity and reveals the difference between flawed vs. being weak.  

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Jul 8, 2020

There are many dangerous qualities of a toxic person, but the worst one of all may be their deceptiveness.

They can be so subtle in their manipulation, you may not even realize what they’re doing to you, until you’re in too deep and they’ve completely eroded your confidence.

I want you to have the awareness to SEE this behaviour for what it is and give you the strength to walk away so you never have to worry about those people again.

In today’s podcast, I take you through the 5 signs you’re dating a toxic person so you know exactly what to watch out for…

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Jul 4, 2020

What keeps relationships together? And what tears them apart?

I've always been obsessed with looking at patterns of those in happy couples.

Today, we share some research into a single behaviour that can make all the difference...

Let us know your thoughts. Send us an email at podcast@matthewhussey.com! 

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Jul 1, 2020

Have you ever been hurt badly by someone in love? Those wounds can stay with us a long time.

They can stop us from taking chances again in love.

They can make us afraid of getting close to someone again…

Afraid of being vulnerable again…

Afraid of letting someone in…

Because if the result of letting our guard down and choosing to love someone is that we give up all of our power, then why bother, right?

Sure, we may be giving up the special experience of being in love, but at least we don’t have to experience those dreadful lows. If you can relate to this, today’s episode is for you.

You’ll hear me doing a live demonstration with someone who is going through exactly this issue. And what I tell her may be exactly the words you need to hear right now.

This isn’t isn’t a pep talk.

It’s a rational, practical strategy for how to navigate your love life after someone has hurt you, or broken your heart or your trust (or all 3).

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