Ever found yourself in a situation where the person you are with is doing something that affects you negatively, only they don’t see it as a big deal?
They tell you they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong, and that you should be OK with it.
That’s what happened to the woman whose story I tell in this episode.
Her boyfriend was regularly texting a female friend he’d made only recently. Every time she got upset about it, he told her she was being unnecessarily controlling and jealous and that he wasn’t doing anything wrong. In today’s podcast, you’ll see exactly what I think she should do about this situation...
I always think one of the hardest things in a relationship is trying to figure out where we are overreacting and where we are justified. It can be maddening. If you’re wondering whether what someone is doing around you should be a deal-breaker, this will help you figure it out once and for all. Always in your corner.
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There may never be a better time to join the Retreat than this. Go here to book an appointment with one of my team and find out more: http://www.mhvirtualretreat.com.
Answering YOUR questions on topics including:
- what to do when a guy is acting flakey
- creating a "flirtatious energy" (and how to do it)
- how to be less insecure in a relationship
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What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you he wants a break?
You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to him?
In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to.
If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, I',m going to give you the only response you’ll ever need...
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Do you ever worry that the chemistry will fizzle in your relationship?
Or does it seem as though the butterflies have already flown away?
Don’t worry.
This episode contains a game plan to save you...
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Have you been gaslighted before? Is it happening to you right now?
If you’re not sure what “Gaslighting” means… It’s when someone manipulates you by psychological means into doubting your own sanity.
Over time, this can have a dramatic effect on our self-esteem as we slowly begin to doubt ourselves until we no longer trust our own instincts.
It’s nasty.
f you’ve ever expressed your needs to someone or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you and you were made to feel crazy, this message is for you.
It’s a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don’t even know if what we are saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting… that’s why I’m so excited for you to listen to this episode.
It’s going to bring you a sense of peace and calm again... I’ve got your back, friend.
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Question: What’s the #1 secret to powerful, seductive flirting?
For some people, that’s a silly question. “Flirting is simple,” they’ll say. “It’s just something you do when you like someone.”
And yet, in my 10 years of learning about attraction, I’ve seen so many make the same mistakes. They try to talk to that cute guy at the party, the conversation fizzles out, and they’re left scratching their heads wondering, “Am I being too keen? Too aggressive? Am I just boring?” But I understand. Knowing what men/women want when it comes to flirting can feel massively confusing. In fact, I’ve never seen flirting skills broken down in a useful way – so today I’m going to reveal the ultimate flirting formula. (Trust me, you won’t want to miss this).
It's time to finally make this confusing topic clear...
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Maybe you’ve always been afraid of rejection. Maybe there was a specific moment in your past where you experienced a devastating rejection that has left you fearing getting hurt again ever since.
The problem with the fear of rejection is that it still hurts even when we are not getting rejected.
I was taught by my boxing trainer, Martin Snow, that the worst punch you get is the one you never actually get hit with. It’s the one you think about and fear in your mind. That means that even without literally being rejected, we experience the pain by imagining it over and over again.
On top of that, we beat ourselves up for all the things we are missing out on as a result of our fear: potential partners, opportunities, experiences, adventures, and most importantly – our full potential.
Fear of rejection is one of the most human things in the world. We all experience it. But how can we learn to manage it, live with it, and even occasionally, overcome it? I know you’ve been dealt some really unfair situations. I know that sometimes it feels like we can’t take anymore pain. But life is short... I’m with you, friend.
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You watch the cliché rom-coms and sitcoms.
They tell you to be witty, urbane, “sassy”, sophisticated. And that’s what everyone wants to portray on their profile on Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, Grab-a-mate, Blah-bar (Ok, I made up those last two up).
What hardly anyone does in conversation pay an actual memorable compliment.
And this doesn’t just for for online dating. It’s also lacking in many flesh-and-blood conversations. Both men and women defer to trying to look impressive (through their career, fancy degree, social status) instead of making a real connection.
One reason we avoid being genuine in our compliments is because we’re scared to put ourselves on the line. And yet, there is this weird phenomenon: we tend to like people who actually see something special about us.
If you agree and want some practical advice on being memorable in other people's eyes, listen to this episode...
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