Someone once told Steve a secret to happiness he's never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.”
“Why two?”
“You need one so that you can look ahead and know something exciting is on the horizon. And you need to a second so that you don’t get depressed when the first one ends.”
In this episode we talk about:
- The benefits of "positive anticipation" for your happiness
- Why purpose really matters
- Whether you should keep chocolate in the fridge
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I’ll keep this short.
If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this brand-new episode is a must-listen for you today.
It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . .
It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . .
Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end.
In this episode, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away. I’m here for you.
P.S. This message may be the greatest gift you can give a friend or family member who is experiencing this kind of pain right now. Who could you send this to to help them get through the day?
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People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them.
Here we explain why it happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warnings signs appear...
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Whether you’ve been following my work for 5 days or 5 years, this is one you can’t miss.
It’s one of the most fundamental concepts I’ve ever taught, and it is the key to:
- Increasing your confidence
- Expanding your life
- Being irreplaceable to the person you want
- Being able to handle any part of your life going wrong
This is where my dating advice meets my deeper advice for how to live an extraordinary life. Don’t listen to this episode for dating tips. Listen to level up your entire life.
Every week, I help millions of people create the love life they’ve always wanted. But I don’t want the state of your life and your happiness to ever be dependent on the status of your love life. T
he great irony is that it’s when your happiness no longer depends on the status of your love life that your love life finally has a chance to click. Enjoy this episode. It’s a big one.
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Today's Episode: Are Dating Apps Underrated?
A new study suggests that people using dating apps could be MORE likely to want a serious relationship.
Is it true? And what do we think about the common criticisms of dating apps?
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Do you get more done when you're single or in a relationship?
This turns out to be a topic that has a lot of STRONG opinions.
Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about:
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OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me.
She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me.
In this week’s new episode, I tell the full story . . . and it highlights how so many people get hurt because they follow 95% of my advice, but ignore one of the most crucial things I say.
Think of it this way: you can have all the right ingredients to bake a cake, but if you forget to add baking powder, the cake isn’t going to rise.
In this episode, you’re going to learn what the baking powder of dating is. Without it, your relationship will not rise, which explains what happened to this woman I met in the coffee shop.
Check it out, and don’t forget to email us a comment at podcast@matthewussey.com when you get there. Happy weekend, friend!
P.S. I’m giving away a free video module of one of my favorite programs, Attraction to Commitment, at the end of this video. If you’re sick of guys wanting to see you casually, and are ready for a real relationship with someone who’s willing to commit, this is for you.
Get your copy of the full program by entering your email here.
It's ok to be weird...
In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world.
If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic.
So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU!
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Want to hear something that drives me a little crazy?
It’s when people say: “You need to be happy first, before you find a relationship.” In my brand spanking new video, I call BS on this idea (please be aware there is no actual spanking).
Come on over and I’ll tell you why all the annoying people telling you this are wrong.
P.S. We’re one month out from my next Virtual Retreat, March 19-21!
This could be your last chance to make it happen. The first one back in October was a huge success, and I’ve been working with my team for months to make this one even better.
It includes 3 days of immersion coaching to work on new habits, new purpose in your life, leveling up in every area, and becoming the most confident and in control version of yourself you’ve ever been.
This is NOT a love life program—it’s a complete life makeover, inside and out.
If you don’t have your ticket yet, there’s still time.
To book a call with one of my Specialists to discuss your goals this year and whether the Virtual Retreat is right for you, click HERE → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com
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It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it.
Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn?
Join us to find out and email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
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Whether you’re single or seeing someone on a day like Valentine's Day, here are 9 romantic surprises you can do for anyone in your life to make them go weak in the knees for you.
They are subtle . . .
They are unexpected . . .
And they will make someone fall even harder for you than they already are (because why wouldn’t they be already . . . you’re adorable, aren’t you? Aren’t you! Sorry.)
Check ‘em out, friend.
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Join Matt and Steve for a chat on vulnerability, when to reveal yourself in a relationship, and what counts as over-sharing...
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Happy February! :-) I just made this episode for you.
Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man? What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out?
If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, here is your essential listening for today...
Let me know what you think!
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Quiz for you... What do the following 3 things all have in common?:
- Getting nervous on a date
- Getting upset that someone isn’t texting you back
- Not being able to get over a breakup
Can you guess?
The answer is in this episode, let’s see if you got it right...
You’re going to witness a moment taken from a live, exclusive webinar I held for my Love.Life members that wasn’t open to the public.
There was an exchange that happened that is going to change the way you deal with dating disappointments forever.
If you find it hard to recover from the rejection and the sadness of someone not calling after a date, or sex, or from it simply not panning out with someone you were seeing, this is a game changer...
Sending you love, friend!
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Today Matt and Steve sit down for a little chat.
We talk:
- Keeping on track with 2021 goals
- Why you don't need to be "100% happy" to attract a great relationship
- How to decide what really matters in your to-do list
- 3 things you need to work on to have an extraordinary love life
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Are you a list maker? I am. It’s how I get things done.
But doesn’t life sometimes just feel like an endless “To-Do List”? We wake up, make a list, do what we can on that list, and before we know it, there’s another day, gone.
And, if we’re not careful, we get to the end of every day feeling like our confidence has been eroded because we didn’t even get to half of the list.
I don’t want my life to be one long box-ticking exercise, do you? If you want to feel like you’re truly LIVING, not just ticking boxes, check out this episode.
The technique I give in this episode shows us how to feel connected to the things we have to do in our day so that we don’t become list-checking zombies with no real joy in our lives.
I know once you learn this, it will become an indispensable part of your daily practice. I look forward to your feedback.
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Ever wanted to be a better public speaker? Wish you could feel confident and charismatic when you walk into a room?
In this episode, Matt and I sit down to discuss:
- Why you can *still* have massive impact as an introvert
- How to get rid of your bad conversation habits
- The secret to overcoming shyness
- How to answer difficult questions under pressure (and look good doing it!)
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I’m guessing you don’t just follow my work for love life advice...
Unless you discovered my content yesterday, you will have realized by now that the communication skills I teach have massive practical application for your business relationships, your ability to network, your ability to persuade, to captivate, and to navigate challenging conversations in every part of life.
I’ve not just used these skills in my own love life. They have been the fundamental people skills I have used to create every opportunity I’ve ever had and get to where I am today.
And I know that in 2021 you have goals outside of your love life that are deeply important to you.
I want to help you achieve them. This episode is going to show you 7 techniques I use time and time again to make an impact on whoever I’m speaking to and create new opportunities in my life.
I also have a value-packed surprise at the end for you (also free!).
See you there!
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Heyyyy,
It's a chat episode! We sit down to talk about:
- How to identify addictive behaviours
- Avoiding red flags vs. not being affected by past relationships
- How to figure out your goals
- Crunchy vs. smooth peanut butter
It's all here - come join and let us know your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.comn
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Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind?
I have. Many times.
And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way.
In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted. What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back?
It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of angry or upset subsides, and we are left with this sinking feeling that somehow we’ve just messed it all up.
If you can relate to being the kind of person whose emotions and anxieties can be easily triggered in a relationship, this episode is really going to help you. My aim with this video is not to guarantee you never get anxious again (would you even believe me if I said that was possible?!).
My aim is to ensure that even in those moments where your fears and anxieties become inflamed, you have a way of calming them, and approaching your partner in a way that brings you closer together, rather than hurting the relationship. Let’s take back control over those emotions and put you back in the driver’s seat.
And let’s learn to use our moments of friction to make our relationships even more beautiful.
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Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas.
He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour.
Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her.
Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…”
She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him.
But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?)
The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love. In this episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them..
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