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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Now displaying: April, 2022
Apr 29, 2022

What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible?

Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing.

Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bond.

In this episode, Matt explains what it takes to avoid codependency and have the kind of healthy partnership that means you both flourish, instead of creating a scenario where you are excusing toxic behaviour.

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Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com

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Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com

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Apr 27, 2022

How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again.

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us.

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Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com

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FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com

FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com

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Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com

Apr 25, 2022

What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media.

Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere.

Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media.

Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your night out with your friends.

In this week’s brand-new episode, Matt dives into the psychology behind his actions to reveal exactly what it means when someone likes your social posts (but doesn’t reach out in any other way) . . .

. . . and most importantly, what you should do about it.

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Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com

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FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com

FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com

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Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com

Apr 22, 2022

It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating.

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Apr 20, 2022

No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person.

 

And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem…

 

Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life.

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Apr 18, 2022

In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire.

These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.

Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.)

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Apr 15, 2022

If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship.

Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!)

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Apr 13, 2022

"How do I let go of someone I absolutely adore?"

What if you met the "right person at the wrong time?"

Many people have been through the feeling of someone breaking up with them because of a specific obstacle. It makes us think, if only that wasn't an issue, we would be perfect.

If you've struggled to move on from someone who seemed perfect for you, join Matt for this solo episode to learn how to finally let go and get over the one who got away.

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Apr 11, 2022

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I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection.

What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair.

When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?”

You feel amazing. Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind.

He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you.

He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family. . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . .

It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet.

Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks. And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely.

You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real. If this sounds familiar, then this episode is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber.

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Apr 8, 2022

Sick of being asked "why are you still single?"

Tired of society deciding people are more successful just because they are in a relationship?

Me too. 

Here's why you should never judge anyone or yourself by their relationship status, and what really matters when thinking about your current stage of life.

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Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together.

Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com

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FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com

FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com

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Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com

Apr 6, 2022

Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you?

Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't?

This is called microdosing. 

And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term.

In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest questions about microdosing and give practical ways to prevent getting fixated on the wrong person.

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Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together.

Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com

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FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com

FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com

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Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com

Apr 4, 2022

How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently?

Whether it’s due to:

• A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier

• A family member you could’ve created more distance with

• A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted.

But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today.

And if you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this message.

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Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together.

Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com

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FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com

FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com

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Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com

Apr 1, 2022

How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start...

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