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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Now displaying: June, 2022
Jun 29, 2022

Sometimes you're dating someone who gives you mixed signals. You feel you have amazing chemistry and he pays you lots of attention in person, but in between your dates it's like he's disappeared. Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk about what this could mean and how you can respond when there's a mismatch so you don't get stuck in limbo.

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Jun 27, 2022

Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress.

I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you.

I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to the point that leaving the relationship is the only option.

Understanding this model may just save your self-respect, sanity, and happiness. And once you know how it works, red flags will be much easier to spot.

This is an episode you’ll also want to return to anytime you’re stuck in that fog of fear and confusion and want to feel a sense of clarity . . . so you can stop second-guessing your choices and move on with confidence.

P.S. I’d love to hear your comments on this. What’s a “dark pairing” you’ve experienced that made life really difficult? Email us at podcast@matthewhussey.com

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Jun 24, 2022

Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the comfort of keeping you around. If you're stuck in this trap, listen to this NOW . . .

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Jun 22, 2022

You may have been dating a guy that seemed promising, until he said that ONE thing, or you saw ONE behaviour, and it totally turned you off. 

Or you've been together for 6 months, and your attraction has now turned to repulsion.

This is "the ick", and in this episode, Matt, Stephen, and Audrey sit down to look at how this strange phenomenon occurs and what it says about attraction.

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Jun 20, 2022

In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together —the ones that cause people to reach out to me in SOS mode—including:

• When to have sex with someone you’re dating.

• How to have the conversation about sex before you sleep together (and as a bonus, I even provide a sample script you can adapt).

• How to handle rejection and ghosting.

I promise you won’t have to worry about “losing your power” ever again, because you’ll be OK no matter the outcome.

Your coach,

Matthew x

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Jun 17, 2022

If you've ever expressed your needs to
someone, or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you, and you were made to feel crazy, this video is for you.

It's a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don't even know if what we are
saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting . . . 

That's why I'm so excited for you to see this - it's going to show you how to get your personal power back and make sense of the situation.

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Jun 13, 2022

“Where can I meet quality men?”

I’ve probably been asked this question every day for the last 15 years.

Between endless swiping on apps and being in the same friendship circles, many people struggle to even meet people they feel attracted to.

But is there actually an untapped magical place teeming with single guys? Should you go to a Tough Mudder to find your (slightly-dirt-stained) person?

In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of these questions and reveal how you can dramatically increase your chances of meeting someone amazing without having to venture too far out of your comfort zone.

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Jun 10, 2022

What’s the #1 sexiest thing a woman can do on a first date?

Play footsie under the table? Wear a low-cut V-neck sweater? Whisper, “Hey handsome” in his ear when he gives you a hug?

Nope.

While those things won’t by any means hurt your chances, what really makes a guy want you depends on how you make him feel in your company.

He needs to feel intrigued. He needs to feel attractive. He needs to feel a sense of fun . . . 

This week, I’m going to teach you 5 killer lines you can say to any guy to fill him with great emotions and get him dying to see you again . . . 

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Jun 8, 2022

Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you predicted? In this episode, Matt talks about how you can overcome your fear of choosing the wrong person and build self-trust.

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Jun 6, 2022

One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in hindsight.

But there are ways to appropriately respond to red flags in early dating (if you can spot them), and in this episode, I show you one way to “crack the code” . . .

That is, of course, to always have a North Star.

This week, I walk through what, exactly, a North Star is, why it’s so important to have in order to be successful in dating, and how to choose one . . .

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Jun 3, 2022

Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you...

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Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com

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►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Jun 1, 2022

Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities and the answers were pretty amazing. If you want a real eye-opening window into male fears and his psychology in dating, you're going to love this. 

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Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. 

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Follow Matt @thematthewhussey 

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Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com 

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►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com 

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