As we roll into the New Year, it seems like as good a time as any to talk about our standards. We think of a new year as being a time where we reset our standards, don’t we?
And yet, have you ever worried that you’re being too picky?
And have you ever wondered if this “pickiness” is the thing that’s stopping you from finding a relationship?
I was on stage when a woman stood up and asked: “Matthew, should I listen to my mum and lower my standards?”
It’s a hard thing trying to figure out if the reasons you are rejecting people are valid, or if they represent an “unreasonable” standard that you need to let go of.
I hope this provides a little clarity...
Happy Holidays again, friend. I’m thinking of you more than ever right now.
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In this week's rewind episode, I take a question from Khalani on why, in modern day dating, many people are hesitant to jump into a relationship. We also discuss how she can be more trusting when meeting men who are looking for more than a casual fling.
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OK, picture this . . .
I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me.
She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me.
In this episode, I tell the full story . . .
You’re going to want to listen to the full story, because it highlights how so many people get hurt because they follow 95% of my advice, but ignore one of the most crucial things I say.
Think of it this way: you can have all the right ingredients to bake a cake, but if you forget to add baking powder, the cake isn’t going to rise. In this video, you’re going to learn what the baking powder of dating is. Without it, your relationship will not rise, which explains what happened to this woman I met in the coffee shop.
Check it out, and don’t forget to leave me a comment when you get there.
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“Why am I still single?!?”
If you’ve asked yourself this question long enough, you might be starting to feel like finding love is simply a matter of luck. And sometimes that’s true. But most of the time, we may not realize that the way we’ve set up our everyday life and habits can inadvertently make it harder to find “the one.”
If you’re struggling to figure out why you’re still single, in this week’s video, I give you 5 honest reasons why, plus some quick changes you can make to attract the right relationship faster.
Leave me a comment and let me know which reason resonated the most with you.
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For a long time I thought it was crazy how many women asked me to talk about this topic.
But now, I realize the reason is obvious: In 2022, more of us are doing long-distance relationships than ever.
You meet a great guy on Instagram who doesn’t live in the same country...
You start dating the perfect man in your city, only to find out he’s been offered a new job 1000 miles away…
And suddenly, you find yourself having “Skype dates”, and you now spend half your work day sending silly photos to each other on Whatsapp.
You feel like you’re falling in love with this guy – but can it actually work long term??
Should you follow your heart and go for it, or should you listen to your head and call it quits? What’s the answer?
These are big questions, so I decided this it was time to be super honest about long-distance and my thoughts on it.
Here’s what you really need to know...
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Breakups are hard. Really hard. Especially if you didn’t do the breaking up.
You’re left with questions about your own self-worth. You punish yourself for your deficiencies. You retrace the steps of the relationship like a detective on a mission to find out where you screwed up.
And so we meet Roy, the subject of our clip today. Now you know Roy’s story. What can he do to wake from this fever dream? Let’s find out.
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