Have you ever felt like a magnet for avoidants or wondered if commitment-phobic people are all that’s left in the dating pool?
It’s as if you can’t even get anything off the ground, because consistent communication is never in the cards with the people you’re dating. And when you’re dating someone where everything’s falling into place EXCEPT for the fact that they’re avoidant, it can be tempting to rationalize any reason to stay.
But why do we do this, and why does this situation make us want to hold on so tightly to a person who’s not giving us what we need?
Today’s new episode will help you reconnect with your value so you can approach these kinds of situations with a clear head and a sense of worthiness. After all, the faster you say “no” to the wrong person, the sooner you can say “yes” to the right one.
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A huge number of relationships that end, should end.
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But how do we know if ‘ours’ should have ended. We leave with a giant question mark: “Did I just lose the person I was supposed to be with?”
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That lack of closure is a horrible feeling that eats away at us. We don’t always get perfect closure. But there is a way of being proactive about getting peace of mind if you feel like you have someone who is worth fighting for.
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It’s through a simple conversation, and I tell you how to have it in this video.
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And here’s the good news - whatever happens, you and I are going to move into this next chapter of our lives stronger. (Massive thanks to @rayna.greenberg, @ashhess and the @girlsgottaeatpodcast for making this conversation possible!)
Have you experienced a situation where in spite of having dated someone for a short time, it took you weeks (sometimes even months) to start to feel like you’re over them?
And have you found it’s EXACTLY at that moment—the moment you decide to move on with your life—that they suddenly pop back up like clockwork? Even though you know better, they somehow draw you back in with the hope that this time, things will be different.
This week’s new video will allow you to finally rid yourself of the hold this person has over you, so you can begin to sculpt your life the way you want it. And don’t miss the “value exercise” I share at the end. I know you’ll get a lot out of it!
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Shoutout to one of my favorite human beings @edmylett for giving me the honor of being a guest on his show. Love you brother.
I urge all of you to listen to the end of this, because I believe in my soul that the punchline is one of the most important lessons I’ve ever stumbled upon for my love life, my family life, my business, my friendships...MY LIFE.
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This is something a little different for you today. I wanted to share a beautiful conversation I had with my good friend Humble the Poet, where we talk about how to love yourself, set boundaries, and build healthier habits around love and attraction.
In this new episode, we go deep. It touches upon some incredibly important truths relating to how to get back in touch with ourselves (and what makes us happy), so we can make better choices in a partner.
I found his words incredibly heartwarming and uplifting, and I hope you’ll feel the same way.
Matt x
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One of the most special moments in life is when we feel seen and in turn see somebody else for who they genuinely are. But this level of DEEP connection requires vulnerability.
Truly opening up, being vulnerable and allowing someone to see us at our very core can be terrifying. It’s especially terrifying if we’ve opened ourselves up and been hurt in the process.
We all have those negative reference points from our past. Maybe it was the way we were brought up, something that happened at school or the way we were treated in a past relationship.
We experience pain and as a result our guard goes up.
And although we may think that we’re avoiding pain, refusing to get vulnerable comes with its own pain. The pain of stagnation. The pain of avoidance. The pain of knowing that on some level we’re not opening ourselves up to the possibility of a deep connection, an amazing relationship or simply the opportunities that would allow us to create our best lives.
So, I challenge you to make today the day you change that.
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We asked YOU what is the #1 piece of love advice you'd give yourself in your 20s, and boy did we get some good answers :)
Join Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson as they discuss their biggest lessons from their 20's and look at how much they are following through on today.
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The Virtual Retreat is officially back this June 2-4! And there's a special "Early Bird" offer available until the end of January.
This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action.
To learn more, simply head to MHVirtualRetreat.com , where you can choose a time to speak with one of my trusted Retreat Specialists who are on hand to answer any questions you may have.
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Have you ever been a victim of the most painful kind of ghosting . . . where you’re haunted by the fact that you never got closure with someone?
It’s the sort of thing that can consume your thoughts as you obsessively look over the final exchange you had with the person and enlist your friends to help you dissect it, hoping they can spot a clue you might have missed.
The reality is that this need for clarity and closure is a bid for control in a situation where you have none. Not only that, but every time you allow your thoughts to head in that direction, it’s another scratch at a wound that wants so badly to heal.
In today’s brand-new episode, I give you the tools you need to move on for good from this kind of ghosting, including a text message you can send . . . not to get closure from them but to give yourself the closure you need.
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I truly loved this conversation my friend @lindseystirling .
So often in life we’re told how important it is to love ourselves without any explanation of what that actually means or how to practically apply that advice.
If you’ve ever found yourself struggling with this concept, one practical tool is to recognize how we love other really important people in our lives.
Our parents, children, siblings, nieces, nephews, old friends . . . our love for them doesn't have anything to do with whether they have a good day or a bad day today. We love them because they’re ours, even though they can sometimes be difficult or don't always realize their potential.
And that’s how we have to start viewing ourselves. We don’t need to find all of these amazing things about ourselves to start valuing ourselves more.
We love ourselves because we’re ours. WE are the ones responsible for looking after us. Love yourself like it's your job; because it IS.
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Why is it we become “too nice” with someone we like?
It can feel like there is a before/after switch, where we decide we’re attracted to someone, feel the butterflies in our stomach, and can’t help but tighten up and struggle to express our real selves.
And often, this can result in us being too accommodating, or giving polite-yet-boring responses, or in trying too hard to be liked instead of allowing natural chemistry and flirtation to happen.
In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we become “too nice", what we can do to be more of who we really are, and how to show our most attractive self in dating.
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Happy New Year, Friend!
Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the New Year's resolutions people make, and I'm curious how you're feeling about yours today.
After indulging during the holidays, we often place our hopes in the hands of our future selves, determined that this will be the year everything changes. Of course, having goals is a good thing, but the biggest challenge with New Year's resolutions is how quickly they can buckle under the weight of our expectations.
But it doesn't need to be that complicated.
Whether you're stressed about the fact that the "you" who woke up today feels just like the "you" who woke up yesterday ... or you just want to ensure your love life goals actually happen this year, this brand-new episode is going to help you get into the right mindset for 2023.
You've got this!
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