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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Now displaying: February, 2023
Feb 27, 2023

Listening to our gut when something’s off can save us a lot of time and stress when we’re dating . . . but what if we can’t tell the difference between when our gut is warning us and when our anxiety is trying to sabotage us? What if the red flags we think we’re seeing are actually our fears in disguise?
 
If you have a tendency toward anxiety, this second-guessing can make the early days of dating extra stressful, because you may have a hard time separating an important concern from your ever-vigilant anxiety.
 
If you’ve ever wondered, “Is it me or is it them?” you can’t miss today’s episode, in which I share five ways to tell if it’s a major concern or your anxiety talking.

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Feb 24, 2023

I don’t like it when I hear people say, “You need to be happy first before you find a relationship.”

It’s not that the sentiment is a bad one, but saying to someone who is facing challenges in life that they need to be happy before they can be with someone seems highly unproductive to me.

As if it’s not hard enough being alone when we want to find a partner . . . we now also have to achieve this elusive feeling of happiness before we do?!

I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to be happy before you find a relationship . . .

You just need to be “happy enough.”

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Feb 22, 2023
Today we have a special guest: “accidental” entrepreneur and online marketing expert Amy Porterfield! 
 
Matt and Amy discuss:
  • How to lead yourself (and think like an owner)
  • Steps to build self-trust
  • Choosing a career that fits your desired lifestyle
  • Learning to find your 10% edge
  • Finding the business you can start NOW
  • Making time for building your dreams (and the power of "slow success")
And MUCH more! 
Feb 20, 2023

In today’s new episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal.

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Feb 17, 2023

Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from them ;)

You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message they send is like sweet honey for your brain. “Damn”, you think, “I’m an addict.”

And then you fire a cute message back. And you wait...and wait…

“Why aren't they replying?” you want to scream to your friend on the couch next to you. But she’s too busy with her phone to notice.

You try to shift focus, but you obsessively check for a text every 30 seconds.

Sound familiar?

We’ve all had this agony of “anxious waiting” with someone we like. It’s distracting, it’s unattractive, and it drains you of your peace of mind every minute you sit in limbo.

If you’re sick of waiting for his text and want to finally take back your power, listen to this...

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Feb 15, 2023

Today, Matt answers a question from a listener who feels she is independent, successful, and ambitious, but is only meeting guys who fit a more "beta" male stereotype (who take the backseat in a relationship), rather than the driven "alpha" guys she would like to meet. 

Matt talks about some practical strategies to meet the right kind of person for you, and how to think about the qualities that you value and seek out in a relationship.  

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Feb 13, 2023
When everybody seems to have found “their person,” it can make us feel so behind and deeply afraid. This is the very moment we fall prey to saying “yes” to the wrong person, just to put an end to the feeling that we won’t find anyone and will miss our chance at having an amazing relationship.
 
But choosing temporary comfort is a short game, and as we shrink our view of the world, we lose sight of just how much abundance is waiting for us. In reality, those who are successful in love play the long game—one where they trust they deserve more than a relationship that is inherently not meeting their needs, or simply not right for them.
 
In today’s new episode, I not only show you how to identify someone who’s wrong for you, but I also share how to take that leap to start fresh and set your love life on the right path. (And make sure you stay until the end to hear my special announcement so you can take action in your love life this week!)
 
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Feb 10, 2023

We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships.

But as it happens, life doesn’t care about the straight-line trajectory we've planned for ourselves.

It will capriciously take a person from us at a time we weren’t prepared for.

It will injure us when we need to be active.

It will rob us of our finances in a bad business deal we thought was a sure thing.

It will take away a relationship we thought would last forever.

And when these things inevitably happen, it can feel like we’re grieving the loss of some future that’s now no longer available to us . . .

But life is cyclical and doesn’t trend in just one direction. This is why it is imperative for us to take our focus off of where we feel we “ought to be” and make peace with life as it is today.

Because the truth is, there’s always time to reinvent ourselves, meet somebody new, or fix something broken in our lives.

And it is our job to cherish and learn from the wisdom gained from our past experiences instead of wishing things had gone a different way.

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Feb 8, 2023

Today I’m thrilled to share this conversation with the excellent Jay Shetty.

We talk about everything from learning to love your own company, living without comparison, dealing with insecurities, how to find the right relationship, doing the deep work on self-understanding, and much much more!

Jay is a New York Times Bestselling Author, host of the “On Purpose” podcast, a storyteller and a former monk.

Check out Jay’s new book: 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go 

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Feb 6, 2023

Whether you’re getting over a fresh breakup or are still having a hard time moving on from a past one, I hope today’s episode will give you what you need to finally feel like yourself again.

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Feb 3, 2023
Find it annoying when your partner doesn't open up and share with you? Then check out this short clip where I show you the simple but amazing power of "pre-framing" to get more of the behavior you want them (or anyone!) to show. 

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Feb 1, 2023

We asked YOU for your biggest fears in dating and you gave us answers!

In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about the common fears in early dating that hold us back, make us insecure, and cause us to self-sabotage. We give some practical tips on how to break through these limiting beliefs and feel your best when dating and meeting new people.

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