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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Now displaying: April, 2023
(Rewind): "What If He Changes For Someone Else?" 0
Apr 28, 2023
Sometimes you have to let someone go because of the pain they bring to your life. But what if they seem to improve their behaviour with their next partner?!

It can be incredibly frustrating to see an ex who appears to be fixing their issues that previously drove you crazy now the relationship is over. You have an envy for their new partner who seems to be getting the best side of them.

How do you get over your feeling of resentment? And how do you stop worrying that his bad behaviour was somehow YOUR fault?

In this clip, Matt and Stephen discuss how to move on from the past and be free of resentment for your old relationship.

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212: Overcoming Loneliness, Beating Failure, And Rediscovering Connection (with Christopher Robbins) 0
Apr 26, 2023
Ever struggled with a failure you weren’t sure how to recover from? Want to live an adventurous, inspired, and happier life?
 
In this episode, I’m joined for a hugely thought-provoking conversation with Christopher Robbins, founder of Soul Degree.
 
We talk about: 
  • Getting over failure and how our identity can trap us
  • How negative self-talk stops us being present
  • The importance of connection + preventing male loneliness
  • Overcoming fear of vulnerability 

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(Matt Monday): Why You're ADDICTED to Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Break the Habit) 0
Apr 24, 2023

When it comes to the traits we want in a partner, “emotionally unavailable” is never on the list. So why do so many of us end up dating not just one emotionally unavailable person, but a series of them?

When someone feels slightly out of reach, our instinct is often to chase them down and make them ours . . . but this is often an unwinnable bet, where we risk losing not only our hearts, but also our time.
 
In today’s new episode, I get to the heart of what goes on when we keep finding ourselves getting stuck on emotionally unavailable people, and how we can break the pattern and find someone who’s ready for a relationship.

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(Rewind): Why Your Path To Relationship Will Look Different To Everyone Else’s 0
Apr 21, 2023
You might see you're friends in relationships and wonder: "why haven't I found someone yet?".

It's tempting in these moments to self-criticise or wonder if there's something wrong with us. But in this episode, Matt and Stephen explain why you shouldn't expect your path to love to be the same as everyone else around you...

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211: Powerful Healing Habits After Heartbreak - w/ Martha Higareda 0
Apr 19, 2023
In today's episode, I had the absolute pleasure of interviewing actress, entrepreneur, and screenwriter Martha Higareda. She is a beautiful soul and a wealth of knowledge of life and love.

In this conversation we cover:

- How To Recover From Heartbreak and Narcissistic Relationships
- Spotting Toxic Behaviour In Dating
- Healing your wounds and your inner child
- How To Stop Idealizing In Relationships

I'm so excited to share this conversation with you and know you'll get tons out of it!

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Matthew McConaughey’s Dating Advice 0
Apr 17, 2023

Today’s interview with Matthew McConaughey is instantly one of my most popular interviews of the last 10 years.
 
Thank you so much if you listened, subscribed, and shared this episode with your friends and family . . . you’re the reason this is reaching so many people right now.
 
One thing that’s surprised people the most is how relatable this entire interview is, and just how vulnerable he gets about what made the difference when it came to overcoming his fears and finding love.
 
He says some seriously profound things. By sharing this episode with your friends and family, we can get them to more people who need them.

Thanks again for being part of this really fun and amazing moment with me.

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(Rewind): Is Having A "Backup Person" Cheating? 0
Apr 14, 2023
A recent dating study showed that many people have what is known as a "backburner relationship". And many people date today while also still being in touch with exes or former sexual partners.

Is this trend dangerous for building a relationship? And what does it cost us in the long-run if we have a "backup person" who we keep contact with?

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(Matt Monday): Why Do They Always Come Back? 0
Apr 10, 2023
Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out.
 
When you’re in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerless—holding on to someone who’s not giving you what you need. So how can you break this cycle once and for all? Don’t miss today’s brand-new episode!

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(Rewind): How To Talk About Your Insecurities In A Relationship 0
Apr 7, 2023
Have you ever had an insecurity, a jealousy, or something that hurt you or made you feel threatened, but you didn’t know the right way to bring it up?
 
Of course you have. We all have. Maybe you’re feeling that right now. It can be terrifying, can’t it?

We are told vulnerability is good, but we know it can hurt the relationship if we repeatedly express our fears and insecurities. 

But being vulnerable can actually create a deeper bond with someone, as well as reveal if they’re the right person for you in the first place.
 
The important thing is that we talk about it in the right way, as Matt and Stephen explain in this episode...

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210: How A Lack Of Confidence Is Holding Back Your Love Life 0
Apr 5, 2023
We asked YOU this week how not having confidence affects your love life, and you answered!

It's only when we really ask ourselves this question that we can see all the small ways that lack of self-esteem or negative self-talk can be causing us play it safe, self-sabotage, or just live with unnecessary anxiety.

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson dive into the roots of confidence and what we can do to rewire ourselves for a more positive self-image in approaching our relationships.

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(Matt Monday): The Truth Behind WHY They Won’t Commit to You 0
Apr 3, 2023

Have you fallen for a guy who says he’s “confused”? He really likes you and spends time with you, but isn’t sure if he’s ready for a real commitment yet? If you’ve experienced this, you will know that this type of hedging can leave you INCREDIBLY confused. You feel you have something special with him, yet he’s still holding back. You know you can’t live in limbo forever, but you also can’t let go.

When you’re in this situation and you really like someone, their excuse can almost become a romantic challenge as you try to figure out how you can still be together in spite of any obstacles. In today’s video, I show you how to navigate this confusing situation and take back control of the situation.

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