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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Now displaying: June, 2023
(Rewind): When You’re Afraid Of Getting Too Invested Too Quickly… 0
Jun 30, 2023
What do you do if you fall for someone too fast? Or you find yourself waiting by the phone for their next text?

If this happens to you frequently, it can be a sign of bigger issues to do with (a) your confidence, or (b) your perception of someone you're attracted to.

In this clip, Matt and the team discuss how to avoid this trap and invest in a way that makes sure you protect yourself when you fall in love.

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218: Responding To YOUR Biggest Dating Mistakes...(Part 2) 0
Jun 28, 2023
What's your most repeated dating mistake? 

Sometimes it takes looking back in our past relationships to notice the patterns that have reoccurred several times, or choices we've made over and over again.
 
Following on from last week's episode, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey are BACK for part two, where we respond to YOUR dating struggles and look at ways you can break your negative patterns for good.
 
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Come and join me on my LIVE Retreat for 6 magical days from October 9th-15th working on your deep inner confidence, life goals, relationships, and overcoming your biggest negative beliefs. Go to MHRetreat.com to claim your spot and join us in Florida!
(Matt Monday): 3 Signs He's Not Serious About You 0
Jun 26, 2023
Can you relate to this . . . 

You’ve been dating someone for months and see them once or twice a week. You’ve gotten into a pretty good rhythm, but at the same time, things aren’t really moving forward either. You’re wondering: “Do they like me? I feel like they do, and yet, I don’t know whether this is going anywhere . . .”
 
In this week’s brand-new episode, I give you 3 specific things to look for when you want to know if someone’s serious (or headed in that direction).

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(Rewind): When He Fears Commitment Because He Doesn’t Want To Be Changed… 0
Jun 23, 2023
Ever dated someone who is afraid of commitment?

There are many reasons a person can prefer to be unattached, or even fear getting into relationships. It can be a fear of changing who they are, or losing something they value, or feeling like they're compromising.

In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew talk about what it means if a guy doesn't want to commit because he's scared of someone else changing him.

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Come and join me on my LIVE Retreat for 6 magical days from October 9th-15th working on your deep inner confidence, life goals, relationships, and overcoming your biggest negative beliefs. Go to MHRetreat.com to claim your spot and join us in Florida!
217: Responding To YOUR Biggest Dating Mistakes... 0
Jun 21, 2023

Have you noticed a recurring pattern in your dating life? Or have you maybe repeated certain mistakes in relationships that you can't seem to stop doing?

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey respond to YOUR replies on your repeated dating struggles and talk about how you can break these patterns and stop being caught in the same cycles.

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Come and join me on my LIVE Retreat for 6 magical days from October 9th-15th working on your deep inner confidence, life goals, relationships, and overcoming your biggest negative beliefs. Go to MHRetreat.com to claim your spot and join us in Florida!

(Matt Monday): For Anyone Who Feels Rejected or Invisible in Dating 0
Jun 19, 2023
Dating doesn’t feel magical and fun when nothing seems to be going our way. 
 
Sometimes it feels as though love and attention come easy to everybody else, meanwhile, for us, dating feels like a string of painful rejections or endless cycles of feeling used and overlooked. 
 
The reality is that some people simply have an easier time in dating than others. So if you are someone who doesn’t identify with getting a lot of attention or having much luck, how can you combat the insidious feeling of panic that it simply won’t happen for you?
 
If you relate to this, today’s new episode will provide a much-needed boost. It will help you overcome the pain of frequent rejection and reframe the situation you’re in so you can feel hopeful again.

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Come and join me on my Live Retreat for 6 magical days from October 9th-15th working on your deep inner confidence, life goals, relationships, and overcoming negative beliefs. Go to MHRetreat.com to get your spot!   
(Rewind): What Makes The “Bad Boy” Attractive To Chase… 0
Jun 16, 2023
We've all heard the cliche of why it's more intoxicating to date a "bad boy", but why do people so often pursue people who put them on an emotional rollercoaster? And why do we often assume people are more worth having when they make things more difficult?

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about various aspects of the bad boy and look at some mindset shifts that can help us choose someone who is actually healthy for a long-term relationship.

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216: Sexual Confidence & How to Show It (with Emily Morse) 0
Jun 14, 2023
Today I'm joined by the fantastic and insightful Emily Morse. Emily is a sex therapist, author and media personality and host of the 'Sex With Emily' podcast.

In this conversation we discuss:
  • How to improve your sex life by understanding your own body
  • Being confident enough to feel sexy in your own skin
  • Talking about sex with your partners to have a fulfilling sex life
  • Getting rid of shame around sex and exploring your sexuality 
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►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps.
Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . .
→ http://www.DatingWithResults.com

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►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com
(Matt Monday): DON'T CHASE After Sleeping Together DO THIS Instead 0
Jun 12, 2023
Sex can either be a massive turning point for a new relationship, or a gateway to more anxiety and pressure . . .

This is because even though we may want to, it can feel hard to ask for more from the person we’re sleeping with when we’re afraid we’ll scare them away.

But what if I told you there’s a high-value way to approach this situation—one that can pave the way for a more meaningful connection? Don’t miss this week’s brand-new episode to learn the three ways you can approach these conversations.

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(Rewind): How To Stop Obsessing Over "The One" 0
Jun 9, 2023

 Does the pursuit of a “soulmate” hold you back from finding love?

In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew look at what happens when we get caught in the obsession of trying to find “The One” and how best to decide what you’re looking for in the right relationship.

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(Matt Monday): Afraid to Ask Where It's Going? WATCH THIS 0
Jun 5, 2023

When is the appropriate time to ask where a relationship is going?

If you’ve been seeing someone for a month and are sleeping together . . . can you ask then? Should you wait four months to make sure you don’t come on too strong? Or maybe you should wait for THEM to ask you? And if they don’t bring it up . . . is that a bad sign?

The truth is, we often don’t feel like we can ask because we’re afraid of the answer.

In today’s episode, I share three perspectives that can shift your mindset when it comes to discussing the future of your relationship, so you can finally break free from fear and build a relationship guided by open communication and shared values.

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►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps.
Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . .
→ http://www.DatingWithResults.com

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►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com

►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

(Rewind): Are You Choosing The Right "Type" Of Person To Date? 0
Jun 2, 2023
We often feel like attraction is not a choice in dating. But the decision of who we choose for a life partner is 100% a decision, and it requires us to deeply understand what we value and what qualities will make us happy long-term.

In this episode, Matt and the JAMS team discuss how to think about your "type" in dating, the mistakes we make in choosing certain partners, and how to escape toxic cycles in our dating life.

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