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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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(Rewind): Why We Get Attracted to the Wrong People 0
Jun 28, 2024

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you?

Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?

It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want.

In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. 

At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...

Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...

 

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250: “How Soon Can I Ask for Exclusivity?” 0
Jun 26, 2024
When is the best time to ask the person you’re dating if they’re still dating other people? Is there a “sweet spot” during the dating process to have the exclusivity conversation? 

In today’s podcast, you’ll learn how to balance emotional intuition with practical strategy . . . plus avoid emotional manipulators and love bombers in the process. You’ll also learn how important connection is (and when feeling it in the early days of dating can lead you down the wrong path, especially when chemistry is valued over compatibility). This episode will give you tools and mindsets to navigate the early days of dating with confidence!

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(Matt Monday): How to Heal From a Narcissistic Relationship 0
Jun 24, 2024
In today’s new episode, an incredible member of my Club 320 inner circle asked 3 beautifully vulnerable questions (and gave me permission to share them with you). From a painful childhood to a 10-year relationship with a narcissist, she wanted to figure out how to release shame, heal, and find her true self. 
 
No matter what your story is, you don’t have to carry this baggage forever. After listening to Cara’s story, you might start to look at your life, your history, and your future differently.

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(Rewind): Don’t Avoid Difficult Conversations In Relationships. Do THIS… 0
Jun 21, 2024
Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we're afraid we will "make waves" in the relationship.

We come from a place of fear and anxiety. "What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?" we think to ourselves.

So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer.

But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on.
If this is you, this episode is for you.

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249: Don’t Fall for THIS Early Dating Trap! 0
Jun 19, 2024
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(Matt Monday): Long Distance Relationship? AVOID This Mistake 0
Jun 17, 2024
Have you ever wondered how you can move on from someone you never dated? Perhaps you’ve been pining for them for months (or even years) . . . hoping they’ll finally notice you and see your value. 
 
This great question is one of 7 I answer in today’s new episode, based on the comments you left me last week. I also dig into topics like:
 
• What’s the best way to start a long-distance relationship?
• What’s your dating advice for people over 40?
• Why did they change their mind about being ready for a relationship?
 
Don’t miss these, and once you’re done, be sure to send an email to podcast@matthewhussey.com with a question you’d like me to answer next time!

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(Rewind): Do You Feel You’re Giving Too Much in Relationships? 0
Jun 14, 2024

What do you do when you’re a giving person but you feel like your kindness gets taken advantage of in relationships? Maybe you feel like you’re always the one trying and then your resentment builds up until one day you explode in anger. 

In this video, I show you why we get trapped in the curse of people pleasing, how to set appropriate boundaries, and how to ask for what you need from someone you’re dating. 

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248: Are They Right for You? (Love Languages Explained) 0
Jun 12, 2024
The concept of "love languages" has been incredibly popular in recent years. But is there really only 5 ways to give and receive love? And how useful is the idea of love languages when trying to find a compatible partner for a relationship?

Join Matt, Stephen and Audrey for an explanation of the science around love languages, criticisms and challenges of the theory, and how you can apply them when dating. 

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(Matt Monday): Why They ALWAYS Come Back + How to Reach Out After It Ends 0
Jun 10, 2024
"How can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest?"

This is just one question out of 10 that I answer in today's rapid-fire Q&A episode, which also includes answers to:
  •  "What Dating Advice Would You Give to Your 16-Year-Old Self?"
  •  "When Did You Last Cry?"
  •  "How Can I Get Over the Shame of Having Stayed Too Long in a Relationship?"
  •  "Is It Worth Reaching Back Out to an Ex Who May Have Changed?"
... and much more.

It was super fun to read and answer all your questions. Be sure to leave me a comment with any questions you might have for part 2!
 
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(Rewind): 7 Surprising Signs They Like You... 0
Jun 7, 2024
If you’ve ever wondered, “do they actually like me?" then you don’t want to miss this episode…

How do you know if someone genuinely has eyes for you, or if they're just like that with everyone they meet? 

Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on.

You need to know when you have the green light. You need to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters.

In this clip then, I'll show you the 7 obvious signs someone REALLY likes you...

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247: Why He Disappeared After Sleeping With You 0
Jun 5, 2024
Have you ever gotten intimate with someone who seemed to show ALL the signs of wanting more with you, only for them to go cold afterwards? Why does this happen? And is there anything you can do to protect yourself from this happening again?

In this episode, Matt and Audrey discuss why men can disappear after sex, how to judge whether to sleep with someone or not, and how not to get seduced by the wrong people. 

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(Matt Monday): 7 Tests to Know If You’re Compatible 0
Jun 3, 2024

Is love enough to keep a relationship going?

You may have asked yourself this question when you’ve faced a difficult breakup.

In today’s episode, I go deep on this question, and talk about 7 compatibility tests that can help determine whether your relationship will last.

These are some of the most underrated qualities in a partner, and after watching, you’ll never look at compatibility the same way again . . .

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