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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Aug 30, 2024

When your heart gets broken, it can be as painful as any physical trauma.

You can't eat. The world seems dark. Your every thought is tinged with a feeling of loss and hopelessness.

But there are STILL choices. 

And the ones you make now will decide whether you stay feeling broken and defeated, or whether you heal and come back feeling stronger, more confident, and ready to love again.

Here's how to get on the right path back to YOU . . .

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►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Aug 28, 2024

When you've been betrayed or hurt by someone, you can often ask yourself, "How did I miss the red flags?".

And in this reaction you may end up blaming yourself. Especially if you feel like there's a recurring pattern in the people you've chosen to date so far. So what is the role of our own responsibility when we date people who hurt us? And how do we practice self-forgiveness and compassion for ourselves so we don't get caught in a trap of endlessly beating ourselves up for someone else's bad behavior?

In this episode Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss the role of self-compassion vs. accountability, dealing with betrayal, and how to move on from heartbreak the right way.

►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com
 
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Aug 26, 2024

“I’m always the person they date right before they find the person they marry . . .”

Sound familiar? It can be shocking to find out that someone who always held out on commitment suddenly decides they want marriage and children . . . but only after you break up.

At that point, you might be thinking: “Oh, so they were able to change . . . they just didn’t want to change with me.” So how can you recover from this feeling of not being chosen? In today’s episode, I share 3 things you MUST know when you find yourself in this situation and can’t move on.

►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Aug 23, 2024

Are you tired of people not putting in any effort? I get it, this can be extremely frustrating, especially if you consistently come across people like this.

If you’re wondering what you could do to make someone try harder in early dating, I have a powerful concept to share with you that relates to maintaining attraction. Plus, you'll learn how to apply this concept with three powerful messages you can send to communicate your standards in a playful yet effective way that will encourage them to actually pursue you.

►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Aug 21, 2024

The first time you experience heartbreak is a shattering experience. It's a new pain, it feels like your entire world falls apart, and you don't know if you'll ever feel better.

In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to shift your perspective on your heartbreak, the mindset that helps your recover, and how to stop seeing this person as your only path to happiness.

►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Aug 19, 2024

Do you have the heartbreaking feeling that you lost “The One”? Maybe you’re haunted by a mistake you made, or something you said, or just a feeling that you could have done something differently to save the relationship.

Here’s the good news: There is a path out of this pain. In today’s episode, I’ll show you 5 ways you can recover after (what you feel was) a love life mistake. Whether you’re mentally beating yourself up or just can’t seem to move on, I’ll show you how to feel better instantly, and what you can do when you see that person again.

►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Aug 16, 2024

I’ve heard this story so many times before . . .

You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair. When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?”

You feel amazing.

Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind. He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you.

He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family . . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . .

It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet.

Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks.

And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely.

You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real.

If this sounds familiar, then this video is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber.

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Aug 15, 2024
There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship. 

In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious behavior in relationships, how to become more aware of your triggers, and simple ways to get more emotional control and calm your anxiety. 

►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days...
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Aug 12, 2024

Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?”

 

The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that moment . . . but what actually happens when you decide not to put yourself out there anymore (when deep down, you still want to find love)? 

 

In today’s episode, I share 5 ways you can get back into dating that won’t lead to burnout. You’ll see how to maintain your peace while also giving yourself permission to take small (or even big) swings in love.

 
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Aug 9, 2024

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself?

Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment.

Of course, in a world where people are constantly trying to curate and filter their lives, it’s no wonder most of us find it scary to try something where validation isn’t guaranteed.

And while it might not be possible to feel completely immune to the fear of rejection, there are things you can do to move beyond that paralyzing anxiety.

In today’s episode, I’m going to give you three secrets to changing your relationship with rejection . . .

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►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com


►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

Aug 8, 2024
What do you do if you meet someone who makes you feel accepted, safe, happy, and you truly connect...but they're already in a relationship?

And even worse, they may tell you that they are unhappy in their marriage and want to spend time more with you. Should you give them an ultimatum? Or should you walk away? Matthew and Audrey answer a listener facing this exact dilemma right now, explain why this happens, and break down what the best options are in this difficult situation. 

►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days...
Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com
 
►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com

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Aug 5, 2024
Are you someone who dreads big social gatherings? Or you want to hide under the covers at the thought of being seen in a crowd, meeting new people, or going on a first date? 


In this episode, Matt talks about his own early experience with being a "shy kid", the psychology behind social anxiety (and what makes it worse), and some powerful mindset shifts that can put us in state of relaxed confidence.


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Aug 2, 2024

When your ex moves on quickly, it can feel like a gut punch. It leaves you questioning everything – the relationship, your self-worth, and the life you two built together.

If you’re going through this, know you’re not alone.

This episode dives deep into understanding those tough emotions and, most importantly, helps you reclaim your power and confidence as you move forward.

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►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days...
Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com
 

►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com


►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

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