Have you ever met someone you really liked and spent weeks terrified you were going to blow it?
You’d analyze every message they sent with your friends. You’d worry when they went silent for several hours, constantly checking your phone, looking for signs of hope.
Suddenly, you become a person you weren’t before: needy, anxious, possessive—and you can feel that energy making you more and more helpless.
I know what this is like, and trust me: if you ever want to build a great relationship without playing games, you need to break out of this mindset fast.
Here’s how you change it...
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Do you find it easy to fall for one person too quickly? Maybe you start dating with the intention of keeping your options open, but you find yourself repeatedly chasing the first person you like (even if they aren't showing the same level of effort in response).
In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss how to date intelligently and find the balance between meeting enough people to give yourself options but also investing in the right person when they come along.
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What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you they want a break?
You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to them?
In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to.
If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, please check out my new video. It’s going to give you the only response you’ll ever need...
I’d really appreciate it if you would share this video with as many people you care about as possible. I believe that if a video like this was given to all of us at the beginning of adulthood, it would save us all years of unnecessary suffering.
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Even if you trust your partner, should you feel ok if they reconnect with an ex? Is it a red flag? Does it overstep a huge boundary? Are they being unreasonable, or are you?
In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the nuances of having friendships with your ex, when to see it as a problem, and how to have honest conversations that set your boundaries and express your feelings to your partner.
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It always surprises me how often a potentially great relationship is cut short because of avoidable mistakes and insecure behaviors that we haven’t learned to manage.
“But doesn’t love solve everything?”
Well, not exactly.
What often happens is that these toxic patterns slowly undermine every chance at love we find (or at least make the search much harder than it needs to be).
In this week’s Rewind episode, I want to share the three most common behaviors that can scare someone off before they have a chance to truly fall for you.
Avoid these, and you’ll find it much easier to let someone see your best qualities and build a healthy, happy relationship.
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Over my career, I’ve had so many people ask me how to get someone to actually call them.
We seem to live on our phones these days, and yet, it feels like no one wants to pick them up and actually have a conversation.
We're all good with texting, posting on social media, or sending messages, but when it comes to hearing someone’s voice? Well, that seems like too much to ask.
Or is it?
I've seen people make this way more complicated than it needs to be, so let’s simplify things.
If you're tired of texting endlessly and want to create a real connection through conversation, here are 3 killer techniques to get them to pick up the phone and call you...
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Today it's my pleasure to sit down with the excellent Oliver Burkeman (@oliverburkeman), author of the new book "Meditation for Mortals", which I've found myself recommending to all my friends and family as his work has hugely influential on me in recent years.
We sit down to discuss:
- Why "settling" in relationships is necessary
- How to find your Life Task
- How to get over perfectionism
- The power of intuition vs. reason
- Being more present in your life + acceptance
- Giving up on the illusion of "arriving"
- How to get through difficult things, anxiety, and deal with your flaws
And more!
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When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into "panic mode."
Why are they doing this? How can I be the person they want? What can I say to win them back?
If you allow these swirling thoughts to take over, you’ll likely end up pushing them further and further away.
Now, I’m not here to tell you whether or not you should give things another try with your ex. There are many factors to consider, which we can talk about another time.
But what I do know is that if you want to have a real chance of reconnecting, you must understand this important truth before taking the next step...
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