This week’s video is about moving in together.

But you should watch it even if you’re not at that stage with someone, because it contains a truth that is essential to understand when moving from one stage of a relationship to the next.

If there is someone in your life you plan on getting more serious with, this is for you.

I felt this video was especially relevant to these times where the term “turbo relationships” is on the rise. A “turbo relationship” is a relationship that is moving unnaturally quickly because of the circumstances of this year – lockdown necessities, spending large chunks of time with each other, choosing one person instead of casually dating multiple people, and moving in together far earlier than we otherwise would.

All of this puts pressure on the relationship that can be counterproductive to it going somewhere long term. If we want to build our relationships to last, it’s important they don’t burn out before they’ve really begun.

This video will show you how to ramp up your relationship without ramping up the pressure.

Enjoy!

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• The Difference Between "Right" and "Ready" – Why the perfect person for you isn't just about compatibility but about commitment.
• Unwilling Compromises vs. Real Obstacles – Understanding when someone is genuinely unable to be with you versus when they’re just unwilling to make sacrifices.
• Why Love is a Verb, Not Just Words – Actions define relationships, not promises or poetry.
• The Power of Perspective – If you were in their shoes, what would you be willing to do to make it work?
• How to Move Forward – Letting go of someone who won’t show up for you and reclaiming your time and emotional energy.

Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another.

Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship.

With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time.

Today’s Rewind episode could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision.

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• Why Valentine’s Day can be a painful reminder of heartbreak
• The different types of heartbreak: fresh, chronic, and long-term loneliness
• The power of self-compassion and reconnecting with yourself
• Why no contact feels so hard—and how to stay strong
• The danger of dating as a distraction from heartbreak
• How to stop obsessing over your ex and wishing things had ended differently
• Dealing with regret and the fear that you lost “the one”
• How to recognize and avoid emotionally avoidant partners
• The key to moving forward and finding love again

• How to ungive up on dating in 2025
• Why closure isn’t always about an explanation—sometimes, it’s just seeing the truth
• The surprising red flag that’s often overlooked when choosing a partner
• How to stop wasting time on someone who isn’t invested in you
• What it really means when a person pulls away after intimacy
• Whether it’s worth revisiting a past connection—or if it’s just a distraction
• The importance of living a full life outside of dating to naturally attract the right person.

Are you one of those people who dreads Valentine's Day?

Whether they're single or in a relationship, people have all kinds of reasons for wanting to skip February 14th:

There’s too much pressure to be romantic.

It’s all about money and gifts.

Single people are made to feel like failures.

It would be easy for me to say all the reasons Valentine’s isn’t worth the trouble.

But I think we can all make this an event we actually enjoy instead of dread. First, you need to avoid some of the big mistakes people make when approaching the day (and their whole dating life).

Avoid these 5 traps, and you’ll be on your way to fulfilling love at any time of year . . .

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It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships.

You’ll also see how to communicate your needs if someone isn’t giving you real closeness and it feels like they are  rushing forward while not showing real consistency.

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• The illusion of a "fresh start" and why life never truly pauses
• A Love Life Club member's dilemma: Can you date while preparing for single parenthood?
• The reality of navigating life nel mezzo—in the middle of everything
• How our subconscious wiring shapes our goals and behaviors
• The trap of waiting for ideal conditions before taking action
• Why New Year's resolutions often fail (and what actually works)

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