On dating apps, first impressions matter.

And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . .

That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?!

You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think:

Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination?

I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . .

Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by.

So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are?

In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app.

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You know those moments where you look back and think, “I wish I’d known then what I know now”? Well, in today’s new episode, I share the 7 things I wish I knew back when I was dating. Hopefully you can learn from my mistakes in my 20s and 30s to save yourself extra time (and heartache)!
 
If you’ve ever found yourself giving more than the other person in your relationship, felt heartbroken that someone doesn’t like you back, or chased the wrong person, you can’t miss this!

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Have you ever felt jealous about your ex’s previous partners? In the age of social media, it’s easier than ever to see our partner’s history and compare ourselves to our ex’s history.

In this episode, we talk about the problem of this “retroactive jealousy”, how it affects us psychologically, and how to let go of it.

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Matt and Audrey sit down to discuss the problem of settling for someone else's lack of commitment simply because you can't let them go, how to set boundaries, and what is required of us to choose the right person.

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A bad date—where we know we won’t see the person again—can be frustrating since it wastes our time. But what’s even MORE frustrating? An amazing date with someone who just disappears after seeing us only once or twice.

It leaves us wondering: “What happened?? I thought we had real chemistry!”

In this episode, I explain exactly why someone pulls away after a first date… (and how you can tell the difference between someone who’s a keeper vs. someone who’s just telling you what you want to hear.) 

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In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire.

These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.
 
Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.)

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Long-distance relationships are a tough gig.

You miss each other. You feel like a separate part of their life at times. And you don’t always know when you’ll be together again. So . . . is it worth it? Well, it depends.

Long-distance relationships are tough, but there are warning signs that can help tell you if it’s likely to work long-term. In fact, there’s one thing someone can SAY to you that basically guarantees a long-distance relationship won’t last, and I share it in this episode.

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Dating fatigue is real.

Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship.

But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff?

In today’s video, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one. You’ll learn how to:  

• Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them.

• Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity.

• Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship you’re actually in.

You’ll want to bookmark this video and rewatch it before any date.

Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding!

In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down with their wonderful wedding planners Lynden Lane to discuss what makes the perfect wedding, how to budget for a big event, and how to create the greatest memories with as little stress as possible.

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People ask me a lot, “How did you meet your wife?”

Well, it wasn’t just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert like me could use to be in exactly the right place to meet Audrey when I did.

I believe anyone can apply this advice in their dating lives to find love. So if you want to maximize your chances of meeting (and attracting) someone amazing, the 3 practical steps I mention in this episode could lead you to your person . . . possibly without you ever having to swipe right!

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What does it mean to truly accept every part of yourself? How do we let go of beating ourselves up for our mistakes and flaws and embrace who we are?

There are so many things that can knock us off our path, make us feel shame, and cause us to feel unloveable.

In this episode, Matthew explains how to build the foundations of self-compassion and stop basing our worth on the wrong things.

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Have you fallen for someone who just can’t give you the same affection back?

Emotionally unavailable people are the relationship version of junk food. You know it’s bad . . . but your addiction keeps you going back for more.

This is nothing more than a formula for heartbreak. In today’s new episode, I dive into the psychology behind why we’re attracted to emotionally unavailable people, and why just because something’s scarce (such as someone’s attention) doesn’t mean it’s valuable.

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Have you ever dated someone who seems really into you . . . only for you to find yourself in a dead-end situationship where you just want to scream, “What are we?!” every time you’re together?

Turns out there is a solution for this (and you don’t need to be a mind reader).

In today’s episode, I’ll show you some simple ways you can find out what your future would look like with someone—even early on in dating.

Be sure to watch now to learn how you can tell the difference between someone who will continue to string you along and someone who’s good relationship material.

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People think going on a date with someone is simple.

You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah blah blah. Gulp down a few drinks. Maybe a kiss. End of story.

Well... that’s not bad.

But do you really want to be just the “not bad” person in their head?

Wouldn’t you rather they go home in a romantic haze, unable to take their mind off this new, unendingly fascinating person who they just pray will answer their texts the next day?

Thought so.

If you really want them to miss you after only 24 hours, don’t leave the first encounter without throwing in a few of these techniques...

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In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down for a conversation with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast. We cover why men don’t open up, the inner beliefs that affect our romantic relationships, healing our wounds, self-love, and how to be truly fulfilled. 

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Podcast: The Mindset Mentor

If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early-stage dating...

If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere…

And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing differently to change that…

This video is for you.

(It also contains a very special guest who hasn’t been seen in a long time, but is demanded on a daily basis. You’re welcome.)

Can’t wait to hear what you think.

Not long ago, I decided to do something II nearly NEVER do. My inner child was screaming at me to do anything else - but I decided to quiet that voice and go for it anyway.

Here’s what I learned from getting out of my comfort zone, doing something I was afraid of, and quieting my inner emotional resistance.

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