Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey is the world’s leading dating expert for women. He is a New York Times bestselling author, a monthly relationship advice columnist for Cosmopolitan Magazine, and the resident love expert on The Today Show. Love Life is a 360-degree approach to guaranteeing success in your love life, with a focus on Dating, Relationships, Career, Confidence and Family.
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Dec 30, 2015

I have 2 huge problems with most New Year’s advice.  In today’s LOVE Life, I’ll tell you what they are and why they are sabotaging your attempts at getting the love you deserve.  I’m also going to tell you the secret to getting drastic results, and why failing at your resolutions doesn’t have to derail you from reaching your goals in a big way this year.  Stay tuned til the end for details on how to get my free guide – “6 Shortcuts to Love.” (

Dec 28, 2015

Did you know that by January 15th, 90% of people have already given up on their New Year’s resolutions?  Don’t fall into this trap!  In today’s LOVE Life I’m going to give you the no-overwhelm secret to sticking to your resolutions.  You’re actually going to take the pressure off of yourself, scale back your goals, and STILL get the biggest results you ever have this year.  And stay tuned until the end of the episode, because I’m going to tell you how you can get an amazing free gift: your 2016 action plan for love.  (

Dec 25, 2015

We all know Christmas isn’t really about the presents… but did you know that there is ONE gift you can give to every single person you care about (without opening your wallet) that will transform your relationship with them instantly?  In this special episode of LOVE Life I share the simple secret to doing this.  And be sure to stay tuned to the end, where I tell you how to grab your free gift from me that will help you make the most out of this holiday season (and could possibly send you straight into the arms of Mr. Right by New Year’s Eve)!

Dec 23, 2015

If you consider yourself a strong, independent woman… If you have trouble asking for help… If your default mode is, “I can do it myself” AND you’re wondering why guys don’t approach you, then I want you to listen closely to today’s episode of LOVE Life.  I’m going to reveal 4 simple things you can do that make you instantly more approachable, and explain the ONE thing you must bring to every relationship to make it work.  You’ll also learn the surprising quality that truly makes you strong with men.

Dec 21, 2015

If you’re sick of wasting your precious time on the wrong guys, today’s episode of LOVE Life is for you.  Too often, we get stuck in a “small talk” rut when we first meet someone new.  The problem with that, aside from the fact that it’s awkward and boring, is that it doesn’t tell us much about the person that we’re spending time talking to.  I’m going to give you a brilliant conversational technique that allows you to take the question, “How are you?” and turn it into an opportunity to discover whether he has the qualities you’re really looking for in a man.  All in 5 minutes.  This is a must-listen.

Dec 18, 2015

Welcome to the new “hookup culture,” where a woman can sleep with a man she’s just met with no strings attached and no emotional consequences.  Or can she?  I take on this controversial subject in today’s episode of LOVE Life and tell you what guys REALLY think of a woman who sleeps with a man on a first date. This has got me all fired up, and I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on the topic too…

Dec 16, 2015

The holidays are a time of romance, of closeness, of snuggling up together by the fire and opening the gifts you thoughtfully picked out for one another… BUT what if you’re not feeling the love for your guy anymore?  If you’ve been thinking of breaking up with him, should you wait until after the holidays or just get it over with as soon as possible?   In this episode of LOVE Life we sort through your options and come up with the most fair plan to do what’s best for your soon-to-be ex.

Dec 14, 2015

What is the sexiest quality in a woman, or in a man for that matter?  If you said “confidence,” that’s a good guess…but it’s not the right answer.  In today’s episode of LOVE Life I’m going to reveal what this rare – but easily attainable – quality is, and explain the 3 ways you can approach life (hint: you want to choose #3).  When you do this, you’ll be more interesting, engaging, fascinating and attractive to everyone you meet.

Dec 11, 2015

If I told you right now that the world was going to end if you didn’t find someone special by January 1st, what would you do?  You’d get proactive, that’s what!  So let’s pretend that’s the case, and follow my 7 Simple Steps to Guarantee You’ll Be Kissing Someone Special on New Year’s Eve!  I’ve got easy and fun tasks for you to try out in December – including a couple of genius lines that work on a guy every time.  Be sure you listen to the end of the episode, because I’m going to tell you how to get my free “Kiss Him at Midnight” guide. (

Dec 9, 2015

“Opposites attract”… or DO they?  We explore this old adage in today’s episode of LOVE Life.  There’s an important distinction here that most people miss.  I reveal what it and explain exactly what makes a relationship work (and why some are doomed to fail from the start).  I’ll also tell you what to look for in a man you date to create the most exciting, passionate, and lasting dynamic possible.  Use this formula and you’ll be drawn together like a magnet!

Dec 7, 2015

I’m going to introduce a new word to your vocabulary today that might shock you… but once you understand what it is and how to use it to create an insane connection with the guy you like you are going to thank me!  I call it “the dirty word for smart women,” and it’s the secret to making any man endlessly attracted to - and fascinated with - you.  Oh, and you can do it in a restaurant, fully clothed.  Curious yet?  Listen in on today’s LOVE Life to find out what it is… (PS – Check out the YouTube video I created for this by searching “Brainal”.)

Dec 5, 2015

I’ve got a fascinating challenge for you today: I’m going to ask you a series of questions, and your answers are going to reveal a series of clues for how you can be your most attractive to the man in your life.  In fact, you’re going to walk away from today’s episode of LOVE Life with a blueprint for your ideal partnership.  Apply my #1 rule for all relationships to this blueprint and you will be on the path to getting everything you want out of your love life.

Dec 5, 2015

If you’ve ever had an impossible time getting over an ex because you think he could be “The One,” you need to listen to today’s episode of LOVE Life.  I’m going to tell you the one way to know for absolutely certain that he’s NOT “The One.”  I’ll also give you that kick in the butt you need to get out there and start meeting new people.  Let’s snap you out of this funk right now…

Dec 5, 2015

So you’re having trouble meeting men, and you’re wondering if it’s because you’re too picky.  “But I’m looking for ‘The One,’” you think. “Shouldn’t I have high standards?”  The short answer is yes, but you may be enforcing those standards too soon.  In this episode of LOVE Life, I explain the danger of being too selective when you first meet men, how to avoid the “Christian Grey” trap, and how changing your relationship with rejection can steer you away from Mr. Not Good Enough and straight towards your Mr. Right.

Dec 5, 2015

The key to finding a great guy to date is first creating opportunities with lots of men.  So how exactly do you meet them – especially if you’re shy or you don’t like the bar scene?  I’ve got 4 foolproof strategies to instantly increase your interactions – and create attraction – with more men in one night than you’re used to meeting in a month!  I’m sharing them all with you in this episode of LOVE Life…

Dec 2, 2015

I’m Matthew Hussey and – by popular demand – I’m so excited to be launching my new podcast, “LOVE Life.”  In this first episode, I’m going to tell you a little bit about how I became the world’s leading dating expert for women and what you can expect to get out of the show. (Here’s a hint—even though the show is called “LOVE Life,” you’re going to learn about much more than just dating…you’re going to get some proven, practical advice you can use right away to get the most out of every other area of your life.)  We’re also going to get into a topic that all women can relate to – “emotional baggage.” I’m going to show you a simple trick to reframe your thinking that will actually make you MORE attractive to men based on your past experiences.