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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Now displaying: May, 2023
215: Let Go, Move On, and HEAL Your Broken Heart 0
May 31, 2023

"What if you're so afraid of rocking the boat with someone you REALLY like that you forget to uphold your biggest standards?"

It's such a common story: we fall for someone, find ourselves thinking we can't live without them, and compromise on everything in the hopes of making them happy. 

Today, Matthew explains how to deal with this scarcity mindset and keep your confidence and self-worth even when you're afraid your standards might cause you to lose someone...

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(Matt Monday): Scared It Won't Work Out? Use These 5 Questions to Know... 0
May 29, 2023

How do you really know if you're dating "The One"? Do you just know when it's right, or are there signs this person is the perfect partner for you?

In this episode, you'll learn 5 of the most important questions you must answer before you decide on long-term commitment.

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(Rewind): Don’t Mistakes These Behaviours As Signs Of Commitment 0
May 26, 2023
When you fall for someone, it's all-too-easy to misinterpret signs of their affection or presence as signs of them wanting a future commitment.

But unfortunately, there are all kinds of reasons someone might keep you close even if they don't want something serious. In this clip, Matt and the JAMS crew discuss how to protect yourself and be aware when your situation doesn't have a future.

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(Matt Monday): The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Him Want MORE With You 0
May 22, 2023

We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . .

But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected.

Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our needs can be ignored with no repercussions . . .
 
In today’s new episode, you’ll learn the best way to increase attraction and investment in a way that doesn’t diminish your value or make you feel like a nuisance simply for stating your needs.

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(Rewind): Don't Do THIS If You're In A Relationship With A Narcissist... 0
May 19, 2023
It's hard enough dealing with a toxic relationship, but it's even worse if you don't have a strong sense of boundaries to put up when you see behaviour you shouldn't tolerate.

In this clip, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson discuss how to implement self-care to protect yourself when you have the tendency to sacrifice your needs for others.

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214: Choosing The Relationship You Want, Overcoming Jealousy, and Understanding Men/Women (w/ Candice Horbacz) 0
May 17, 2023
I'm super excited to share this excellent conversation I had with podcaster Candice Horbacz, host of "Chatting With Candice".

In this episode, we talk about:

- Finding the relationship that works for YOU
- The journey of trust and opening up to your partner
- Understand the truth about men and their feelings
- Overcoming jealousy in a relationship

There's tons of great takeaways and Candice has some really powerful insights from her own past and experience. I can't wait for you to check it out!

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(Matt Monday): They’ve Pulled Away?? AVOID THIS MISTAKE 0
May 15, 2023

Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away?

It feels awful.

You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special.

I’ve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in today’s new episode, I’ll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging the relationship (or help you move on to find the RIGHT person for you).

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(Rewind): Why People Disappear When You Show Interest 0
May 12, 2023
Have you ever felt like the moment you show you really like someone, they start to lose interest?

It can make you feel like you ALWAYS have to play games or be "hard-to-get" in order to keep their attention. But is this really true?

In this episode, Matthew and Stephen explain the reasons this can happen and what it really means if someone backs off when you decide you like them.

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(Matt Monday): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without "Playing It Cool" 0
May 8, 2023

We've all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we'll lose all our "power," but if we show too little, they may not even realize we're interested.
In today's brand-new episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person.

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(Rewind): The Subtle Art Of Effective Flirting 0
May 5, 2023
We all know flirting is an essential part of attraction, but how do you actually do it?

In this clip, Matthew and Stephen talk about some of the subtle, practical ways you can go from casual conversation to flirtation on a first date.

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213: How To Stop Obsessing Over Your Ex's Life After A Breakup 0
May 3, 2023
Have you found yourself checking up on an ex on social media after a break up? Maybe you even found yourself jealous upon finding out they were doing well, or found someone else, or had a success that you don't get to be a part of.

In this solo episode, Matt discusses what it means when we overly focus on our ex's life after a break up and how we can get over comparing ourselves to our previous partners. If you want to value yourself and know what really gives you your worth, make sure you hear this message.

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(Matt Monday): This Confusing Phrase is Actually a Major RED FLAG 0
May 1, 2023

Have you ever stayed with someone in spite of them saying they weren't interested in something serious?

Perhaps you'd hoped that with enough time, they'd see your value, realize what you have together is special, and decide to get into a relationship in spite of their fears . . .

We've all heard of situations where someone did just need a bit of time to change their mind about commitment, so how can we tell a dead-end situation from one that actually has potential?

Don't miss this week's brand-new episode to find out! 

 

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