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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Now displaying: January, 2024
Jan 31, 2024
We asked you about what behaviours and patterns have caused the most pain in your love life. And you answered! 

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk on the topic of jealousy in a relationship, insecurity about our looks, and getting over people who don't choose you.

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Jan 29, 2024

It’s normal to want to put our best selves forward on a first date . . . but sometimes this makes us hide who we really are. And that’s a shame, because someone may not see the real version of us—the one they’d want to see again and again.

So how do you create authentic attraction early on? What are the things you could do that would make someone excited for a second date with you?

In today’s new episode, I share 3 natural ways to get and keep someone’s interest on a first date and beyond. 

Jan 26, 2024
Do you feel like everything has changed in the dating scene? Is it making you feel like you have to settle because so many people no longer want commitment?

In this clip, Matthew talks about what it's like when we go through difficult experiences and come back onto the dating scene, what happens as we get older and are looking for a relationship, and how you can approach finding love with a new perspective.

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Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . .
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Jan 24, 2024
We all have made mistakes in our past. And some of those we've made in relationships can not only be the most painful, but being honest about the, can effect how future partners see us.

So how do you know if someone has grown and changed after a past mistake? And when should you share those with someone you're dating (especially if it's something egregious like cheating). 

Matt and Audrey sit down in this episode to talk about moving past mistakes and whether you can trust someone who has cheated in the past.

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►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com
Jan 23, 2024

You may not know this, but you probably have an unconscious dating mindset.

We all do. It might be learned from our parents, an early relationship, or any other kind of formative childhood experience, but it affects so much of our behavior when we meet someone we like.

In today’s new video, I’m going to share 3 of the most dangerous dating mindsets to avoid, and one powerful mindset that will let you enjoy the process while naturally attracting the person you really want.

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Jan 19, 2024
We often learn our attachment style very early in life. And it can go on to affect all of our romantic relationships. But how? And to what extent should we excuse people's behaviour because of their attachment style?

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, what they mean, and how we can our awareness of them use to navigate relationships.

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Jan 17, 2024

How often do you look at yourself and feel great in what you wear? Does your wardrobe fill you with dread or make you feel joy?

In this episode, my wife Audrey and I had an amazing conversation with fashion expert Cassandra Sethi. We talked about how to find clothing that makes you feel confident in your own skin, which items are worth spending money on (and which aren't), and how to put together a wardrobe with outfits that best suit your own personal style.

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Connect with Cassandra

Blog → https://nextlevelwardrobe.com

Insta → https://www.instagram.com/nextlevelwardrobe

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Reserve Your Spot to my Virtual Event for FREE... → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

Jan 15, 2024

It’s a dating mystery: Why would someone invest in dating you and then walk away?

They take you on a romantic trip, buy you an amazing gift, or tell you they’re falling for you . . . right before breaking up with you? What were they thinking?!

In today’s new episode, I share the reasons why someone might lead you on, and how you can use it as fuel to get over them faster and find your person.

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Jan 12, 2024

So this wasn’t the video we’d planned to release this week . . . 

But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn’t wait to talk about it.

The video this week is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better.  

Your coach,  

Matthew x  

P.S. Which revelation surprised you the most? I look forward to reading your thoughts as we continue this discussion . . . which has already become one of my favorites.  

 

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Jan 10, 2024

In this brand new episode, I sit down with my wife Audrey to talk about why people fear commitment and whether people are less inclined towards marriage in 2024.

With the prevalence of dating apps it can feel like we have more options than ever, but people feel it's even more difficult to find their ideal partner. We discuss what has changed in modern dating, reasons for optimism when it comes to commitment, how you can influence someone's view on what commitment means, and how to improve your communication to have a healthy relationship.

►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums. . .
Reserve Your Spot to My Virtual Event For FREE at. . .
→ http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Jan 8, 2024

Have you ever been stuck in “relationship limbo”? If you have, you know how much it sucks . . .

But how can you find the people who are actually ready for commitment, and increase the odds of them wanting it with YOU?

The truth is, there are actually people who—like you—are working on themselves and looking for a true relationship. In today’s new video, I’ll show you how to avoid the time-wasters and game-players . . . and I’ll also reveal the #1 trait that makes someone want to get serious.

Be sure to listen to the whole thing (and watch the full video and hear about a brand-new free training happening this month that you won’t want to miss!)

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Jan 5, 2024

You can set your watch to it. They flake or break up with you . . . you spend weeks — in fact, months — hurting and getting over them, and just as you realize you no longer think about them all the time and begin to feel happy again, you get the text.
 
“Hey, how you doing?”
 
Does this sound familiar? I suspect it does . . .
 
So what is this phenomenon? Why do they always come back? What does it mean? And more importantly, what do you SAY when they do?
 
In today’s episode, I talk about 5 possible reasons why they come back.

►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Jan 1, 2024
Want to find love in 2024?

Now is the time when everyone is making New Year’s resolutions. It’s fun and I love that feeling of optimism before January begins. But we also know how hard it is to break old habits and patterns—and end up feeling a sense of failure and frustration if we don’t reach our goals . . .

In today’s new video, I share with you the #1 resolution you should focus on this year to move toward a successful love life.

►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com

►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
 
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