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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Dec 8, 2023

Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with someone is?

Should you let them know you’d like to go on a date with them? And what about after the date. . .

Should you let them know you’d like to see them again if you felt the date went well but they're not being proactive about setting up another one?

Where is the line between showing someone you like them, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested?

It can be tricky. But I want to make it simple.

You may have heard me say, “Invest in those who invest in you.” But that could leave you wondering to yourself: “Fine Matthew, but so often that means I’m doing nothing because no one is investing in me! And doesn’t someone need to take the first step to invest something if anything is ever going to happen?”

It’s a valid point. I’ll show you exactly how to solve this at the end of the episode, so make sure you listen all the way through.

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Dec 4, 2023

It’s not always easy to tell the difference between friendliness, playful affection, and genuine romantic feelings.

In today’s episode, I dive into the psychology of attraction to share 31 subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that can reveal someone’s intentions.

Whether you’re flirting with someone you’ve just met, or wondering if the person you’ve been dating for a while wants to be more serious, this compliation will help you decode how they really feel!

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Dec 1, 2023

Life is too short to put off our happiness until we reach certain milestones.

It's great to make finding a relationship a goal, but the journey to getting there from being single doesn't have to be an arduous and unpleasant one.

Too many people don't realise how much joy and happiness they can find when they are single and haven't met the right person yet.

In this episode, I'll show you some simple ways to actually enjoy your single life and meet your needs when you're still looking for love.

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Nov 27, 2023
What’s the best way to go from casual to committed when you’re dating someone?
 
There are two important things to remember here:
 
• Our standards are a HUGE influence on someone’s decision to commit.
• We’re more likely to drop our standards when we really like someone.
 
So how do you show your standards in a confident way (without seeming demanding or needy)?
 
In today’s episode, I share the best advice I’ve given on this topic through the years to raise your value in their eyes and build lasting attraction. Don’t miss it!

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Nov 24, 2023

Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man?

What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out?

If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, my new video is essential watching today . . . 

Let me know what you think.

 

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Nov 20, 2023
Some very exciting news to share today . . . 
 
I made a movie!
 
And it’s not just any film . . . it’s a romantic comedy special that will transform your love life while you watch it.
 
We’ve gathered the very best moments from my last live tour to create The Love Mythsa 90-minute movie that’s been years in the making, and we’ve now set a date for its exclusive premiere and live Q&A next month.
 
This is an event you can’t miss, and in today’s video, I give you all the details on how you can join me.

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Nov 17, 2023

One thing no one ever warns you about happy relationships is just how many awkward conversations they can require you to have.

And despite all the big ones of politics, religion and family – I find one topic almost no one wants to talk about is money.

Who should pay on a date? Should you be honest with your partner how much money (or debt) you have? How do you handle it when one of you earns significantly higher income in a relationship than the other?

These are all hugely important, and yet most people bury their heads in the sand and hope these issues will magically work themselves out if you’re truly in love (pro tip: they won’t).

So in this week’s video, I sat down with my good friend Ramit Sethi, bestselling author and CEO of "I Will Teach You To Be Rich," to learn exactly how to have these difficult conversations so you can feel happy and secure about money in your relationship.

I’ve never talked about this before, so I can’t wait to hear your comments on this one...

Appearance by RAMIT SETHI
Ramit Sethi
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Nov 13, 2023
When you're texting with someone you like, do you struggle to know what to say next? Or maybe it feels like you're in a texting rut, and keep having the same conversations…

Today's episode  is a mini toolkit for these exact situations, with 17 high-value texting suggestions that restart attraction, lead to a date, or just bring you more emotional connection.

Use these practical messages to inspire better communication in any dating situation!

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Nov 10, 2023

Have you ever been so frustrated by someone's mixed signals that you just decided to finally confront them and ask where you stand?

It’s a scary moment.

You feel like you’ve thrown your heart into the air, and you’re hoping they'll run to catch it instead of letting it fall and splat on the ground and make a huge mess. (I know, not the loveliest metaphor I’ve ever written…)

And then…

They reply.

You hear their words. Read their text message:

“Hey, I think you’re amazing and have such a great time with you. I really hope we can make things work and I’ll think about what you said.”

Huh?

If you’ve ever had an answer like this, in today’s video I’ll tell you exactly what this ambiguous language means so that you know how to confidently respond to their message...

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Nov 6, 2023

Have you ever felt like you had to walk on eggshells in a relationship? Or had a partner who criticized you or made you feel bad when you were succeeding?

It’s often easier to see a toxic relationship from the outside than when you’re in the thick of it. Sometimes it can even be hard to tell the difference between something that can be worked on and a major red flag.
 
For today’s new video, I’ve gathered 12 of my most important pieces of advice over the years on how to spot a toxic relationship, set standards, and ultimately find the love you’re looking for so you don’t end up in a relationship that damages your self-confidence.

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 ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps.
Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training at. . .
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Nov 3, 2023
There's some really interesting psychology about compliments: not all of them have the same effect. 

You can give generic compliments, or you can give compliments that create real attraction and connection between the two of you.

One of these compliments works for when you first message someone on an app...

The 2nd one is great for when you are meeting someone in person...

The 3rd one is for someone you already know and want to build more attraction with.

This episode is super practical. Take a few minutes to listen, then make it a mission to use one of these compliments today.

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Oct 27, 2023
I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.”

It may be because they are sick of getting their heart broken. It may be that they are exhausted from going on dates that don’t go anywhere, or online conversations that never even get to the point of a date in the first place.

It could be the frustration of never meeting people they have true chemistry with, or when they finally do, discovering that they aren’t looking for a relationship.

If you feel any of these things, I made this for you.

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→ http://www.DatingWithResults.com
Oct 23, 2023
“How can I stop addictive thoughts about someone who’s wrong for me?”

When we really like someone but know there are signs of problems, we’ll often overvalue them for their charisma and charm . . . and set ourselves up for massive future heartbreak. 

If you find yourself getting fixated on someone too quickly—trying to make them fit into a relationship based on who they could be—then watch this week’s episode (taken from my Live Retreat) to figure out when someone is truly worthy of your investment.

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Oct 20, 2023

 It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself.

When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea that you’re just not a likable person.

It becomes a self-perpetuating cycle: “I don’t like myself, so why should anyone else like me?” Then we feel lonely, beat ourselves up, feel like a failure, and like ourselves even less than before.

We retreat more and more into our shells and lose that “spark” that makes us attractive to someone else as a potential partner.

This is exhausting. It’s unfair. And it doesn’t do justice to who you really are on the inside and everything you have to give to the world.

It’s an overwhelming step to think about how to suddenly become supremely confident. So let’s do something more modest today. In this episode, I want to share a small thing you can start doing today to get back your self-esteem and begin to reclaim your core confidence...

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Oct 16, 2023
It’s easy to ignore red flags when we’re falling for someone. But our heart pays the price. 
 
When you’re really attracted to someone, you can talk yourself out of acting on your concerns. You may pursue someone who doesn’t want a relationship in the hope of changing them, or prioritize someone else’s needs over your own because of your feelings of admiration. 
 
For today’s episode, I’ve gathered some of my best advice over the years on spotting and acting on red flags . . . so you can move on faster and avoid the pain of heartbreak with someone who just isn’t ready.

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Oct 13, 2023

We often tell people they should be open in relationships. But what does it mean to be "open"? And can vulnerability become over-sharing, or is it always healthy?

In this episode clip, Matt and Steve talk about the art of opening up to your partner and how to communicate vulnerability the right way.

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Oct 9, 2023
Do you find yourself always chasing the same type of people in dating? 
 
It can be incredibly frustrating when you get caught in familiar toxic patterns. You want to throw your hands up and say, “How did this happen again?”
 
If you want to break this pattern, today’s new video of my conversation with author and entrepreneur Marie Forleo is a must-watch. Don’t miss it!

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Oct 6, 2023
 It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it.

Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? 

Join us as we talk about the kind of romance that matters in relationships and holds them together long-term. 

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Oct 4, 2023
Do you still feel under pressure to find love? Are people making you fearful that it's too late and you're not young enough to attract the partner you deserve?

In this conversation, Matt talks to the incredible Marie Forleo (@MarieForleo) about her own path to finding love, how we may need to change our blueprint to find the right person for us, and what it takes to be truly fulfilled in a long-term relationship and break our old patterns. 

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Oct 2, 2023

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This is the biggest news I’ve revealed in a LONG time, and I’m beyond excited to share it with you.

It’s about something I’ve been tirelessly working on in the background for the last 4 years . . .

In many ways, it’s been the most difficult and personal project of my life.

I’ve had to keep it to myself for what feels like forever now, but I can finally share it with you, and I do exactly that in this episode.

Sep 29, 2023
Do you keep getting flat responses to your text messages? Or find it hard to get things moving in the early stages of dating? 

In this episode, Matthew and Stephen talk about why trying to play it too cool can be counter-productive in dating, and how you can show your personality to stand out and create connection in the first few conversations.

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Sep 25, 2023

Breakups make us feel lonely, kill our motivation, and leave us scared we’ll never find life beyond this pain. But if you’re in a rut now, it doesn’t mean this is the end.

If you feel stuck in heartbreak—or just need some encouragement to pick yourself up—don’t miss today’s new video. I’ll show you how to stop this breakup from defining who you are, and give you the first step to getting the confidence you need to start again.

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Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me →
http://www.MHRetreat.com

Sep 22, 2023
Many of us feel the pressure in life to be "normal". Especially in love where we may want to sand off our edges for dating apps and appear like everyone else.

But I'm here to tell you...

It's ok to be weird.

In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. Or maybe it's the secret to your creativity, your productivity, or what makes you charismatic.

If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic.

So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU!

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Sep 18, 2023

I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Whether we’re sensitive about our looks, our age, or even the fact that we have kids, the fear of rejection can sometimes stop us before we get started.
 
Angela’s story in this week’s episode is one of the most impactful I’ve heard on this subject. I’m so excited for you to see it. If you want to feel more confident in dating (and in life!) you can’t miss this one!

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►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days.
Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com

Sep 15, 2023

Should I leave or try to fix this relationship? Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another.
 
Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship.
 
With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time.
 
Today’s clip could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision.

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