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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Oct 4, 2023
Do you still feel under pressure to find love? Are people making you fearful that it's too late and you're not young enough to attract the partner you deserve?

In this conversation, Matt talks to the incredible Marie Forleo (@MarieForleo) about her own path to finding love, how we may need to change our blueprint to find the right person for us, and what it takes to be truly fulfilled in a long-term relationship and break our old patterns. 

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Oct 2, 2023

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This is the biggest news I’ve revealed in a LONG time, and I’m beyond excited to share it with you.

It’s about something I’ve been tirelessly working on in the background for the last 4 years . . .

In many ways, it’s been the most difficult and personal project of my life.

I’ve had to keep it to myself for what feels like forever now, but I can finally share it with you, and I do exactly that in this episode.

Sep 29, 2023
Do you keep getting flat responses to your text messages? Or find it hard to get things moving in the early stages of dating? 

In this episode, Matthew and Stephen talk about why trying to play it too cool can be counter-productive in dating, and how you can show your personality to stand out and create connection in the first few conversations.

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Sep 25, 2023

Breakups make us feel lonely, kill our motivation, and leave us scared we’ll never find life beyond this pain. But if you’re in a rut now, it doesn’t mean this is the end.

If you feel stuck in heartbreak—or just need some encouragement to pick yourself up—don’t miss today’s new video. I’ll show you how to stop this breakup from defining who you are, and give you the first step to getting the confidence you need to start again.

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Sep 22, 2023
Many of us feel the pressure in life to be "normal". Especially in love where we may want to sand off our edges for dating apps and appear like everyone else.

But I'm here to tell you...

It's ok to be weird.

In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. Or maybe it's the secret to your creativity, your productivity, or what makes you charismatic.

If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic.

So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU!

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Sep 18, 2023

I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Whether we’re sensitive about our looks, our age, or even the fact that we have kids, the fear of rejection can sometimes stop us before we get started.
 
Angela’s story in this week’s episode is one of the most impactful I’ve heard on this subject. I’m so excited for you to see it. If you want to feel more confident in dating (and in life!) you can’t miss this one!

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Sep 15, 2023

Should I leave or try to fix this relationship? Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another.
 
Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship.
 
With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time.
 
Today’s clip could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision.

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Sep 11, 2023

What’s the secret formula for flirting?

It’s one thing we all know is important in getting attraction, but rarely are we shown how to actually do it.

The truth is, there isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to flirting that works for everyone. But there are things you can do to subtly add flirtatious chemistry into any conversation and make it feel completely natural.

In today’s new compilation episode, I’ve gathered my best flirting advice from over the years, giving you a total of 19 flirty ideas that can help spark chemistry on your next date . . . or get you to date #1 in the first place!

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Sep 8, 2023
Many of us have a preferred way that we tend to feel loved in a relationship. These are known as "love languages": physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, and acts of service.

In this episode, Matt and Stephen talk about whether it matters if you and your partner have different love languages and how you can navigate these differences in a relationship.

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Sep 4, 2023

Get ready to put yourself in the shoes of some of the incredible women who attended our last Retreat, and hear the stories of how they’ve been able to find reserves of strength, resilience, and hope they didn’t even know they had. Plus, you can see the dedication of my team, the absolute blast we have, and the deep work and lightbulb moments that happen throughout the event.

It’s my wish that as you listen to this episode (and make sure to go watch on YouTube as well to see the Retreat live in action!) it will be like a mini Retreat for you today—inspiring you to take on the rest of your week.

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Sep 1, 2023
I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-listen for you today.

It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . .

It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . .

Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end.

In this clip, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away.

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Aug 28, 2023

Betrayal. Anger. Heartbreak. These emotions are normal in the wake of a breakup.

But often, especially if we feel we’ve been mistreated by the person we broke up with, anger lingers long after it’s productive. We become captive to this toxic emotion, unable to move on and get over what happened, rendering closure impossible.
 
So how can we truly heal from this type of pain? In today's new episode, we'll discuss how.

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Aug 25, 2023

Have you ever worried that being in a relationship makes it harder to achieve your goals?

It's a common worry that people have: "I won't be able to juggle all the things I want to do in life and also devote myself to someone".

If you've struggled with this dilemma before (or dated people who have), then this clip is for you. Matthew and Stephen talk about the benefits of being single vs. a relationship and how to reframe your lens to be able to make either work for you.

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Aug 21, 2023

Does your life need to be “figured out” before you find “The One”?

This is the sort of advice married people LOVE to give: “Once you get your life together and you’re totally fulfilled and happy, the right person will come along.”

It sounds good. But is it true?

In today's episode, I’ll give you the truth about what you need to do when looking for love so you can find the right person for you without needing to be perfect!

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Aug 18, 2023

There are many qualities that help keep a long-term relationship.

When people typically think of things that matter in a relationship, they often list traits or things they like in an ideal partner: sexual chemistry, a sense of humor, intelligence, and kindness.

But there are also essential qualities that pertain to how we actually relate to the person in front of us on a day-to-day level. In this clip, Matthew and Stephen explain one of the most underrated things you need that keeps a relationship working even when things get tough. 

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Aug 14, 2023

When you get excited about someone, it's easy to get caught in the trap of obsessive thinking.

You try to move too quickly. You check your phone constantly waiting for their texts. You worry they might lose their attention at any moment.

When this happens, you can easily end up self-sabotaging, lowering your value, and pushing someone away. So if you want to keep your confidence and maintain attraction throughout the dating process, use these 3 keys to avoid moving too quickly in early dating.

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Aug 11, 2023
"I should be over them by now...but what if they were 'The One'?"

"Will I ever love someone that way again?"

It's normal to go through feelings of panic and regret when someone breaks up with us whom we love and admire. Or when we look back on the good qualities they have and worry if they were the ONLY person who can make us happy.

But this kind of thinking can be a trap for many reasons.

In this clip, Matt explains an unexpected way of looking at the situation after a breakup that can help to heal your heartbreak.
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Aug 9, 2023

Over the past 15 years, I've coached so many high-achieving individuals who seemingly have it all, but for whom finding love is a massive struggle.

What's holding them back? FEAR.

They fear that opening themselves up and facing rejection could shatter the identity they've built as a confident and accomplished person. To me, this is shame, as it is clear their ego is getting in the way of being happy.

Aug 7, 2023

In today’s new episode, I talk with author and radio host Tanya Rad, who shares what she did to get what she wanted in dating and how she found her current boyfriend in the process.

Her honesty is refreshing, and whether you’re in a relationship or not, I think you’ll learn something new about setting standards (and going easy on yourself when things don’t go as planned!) Moreover, her insights will help you weed out the people who are just looking for something casual so you can find the right person faster.

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Aug 4, 2023

Do you find yourself always measuring your life against other people you know? Or are you worried about whether you have achieved enough, made enough money, or got the right partner by a certain age?

If so, you know what it's like to be stuck in the "comparison trap". While it can be useful to have goals to keep us motivated, we have to remember we are often comparing ourselves to people with completely different lives and experiences than us.

In this clip, Matt explains his own struggles with comparison and how to keep your happiness and get perspective so you're not always focusing on other people's journey.

Jul 31, 2023

When someone we hoped we would be with forever breaks up with us, the pain of heartbreak that follows can be akin to torture.

Most of us have been there before, and we all know it can take all the strength we possess to adapt to this new reality . . . but what about when, in addition to this pain, we have to watch as our ex moves on with someone else?

Today's new episode will give you a new approach that will show you how to rebuild step-by-step so you can feel confident in your ability to fall in love again.

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Jul 28, 2023
What are some of the ways to know if you're in the right relationship? Are there ways you can stress test to see if it has long-term potential?

In this clip, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about 2 of the most important questions you can ask to better understand the health of your relationship and see if you and your partner have a positive dynamic.

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Jul 24, 2023

Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between dating anxiety and your needs not being met.
 
If you know your insecurity can lead your thoughts down irrational pathways, how can you figure out if something you’re stressing about is a real concern? For instance, if you had the most amazing date last weekend but they haven’t texted you for a few days, should you be worried?

And most importantly of all, how do you get more investment from someone if you’re feeling this way?

Instead of feeling insecure and waiting for someone to come to you and meet your unspoken needs, listen to this week’s episode and break free from the self-doubt and anxiety cycle.

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Jul 21, 2023
Do you find yourself with enormous checklists for your romantic partner? Are you often paralysed by a list of standards that no-one can live up to?

In this clip, Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson talk about what matters most when choosing a partner and the long-term qualities we often undervalue.

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Jul 17, 2023

The question Audrey and I answer in this week’s new episode is an important one, because it happens to people All. The. Time!

We’re all familiar with obvious red flags, but some red flags feel so good, they’re easy to miss . . . you know, like when someone is saying the most romantic things, wanting to spend all of their time with us, and making plans for the future . . .

In that scenario, it can be a little trickier to discern someone who’s pretending to be interested from someone who’s truly invested (though perhaps a little over-excited).

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