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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Dec 29, 2023

Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them?

Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s episode) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you.

Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs.

We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?”

Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode.

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Dec 27, 2023
What’s the best way to think strategically about finding love in the coming year?

In this episode I had a chance to speak with the excellent Ali Abdaal who offers practical insights on productivity and simple habits you can adopt to improve your live and maximize your chances of finding your partner.

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Dec 25, 2023
If you’re dealing with loss, sickness, or loneliness, this time of year can serve to magnify whatever you’re going through. 
 
So in this weekend’s new episode, I wanted to do something a little different . . .

While this message is for anyone who needs a boost during the holidays, it’s especially for those in the middle of a “complicated Christmas.”
 
And today I want you to know that you’re not alone. 
 
Listen to this message and please do drop me a comment after you watch. I’d love for us all to feel more connected and help people know that others understand what they’re going through right now.
 
Happy holidays,
Matthew
Dec 22, 2023

You know those tricky early dates?

You go for drinks. Maybe a walk. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy a similar taste in movies.

Then texting.

Then maybe a kiss.

Uh-oh, now you actually like them. Crap. I mean, great!

Now what?

If you want to know how to keep the attraction well after the first date, so you can finally stop overthinking and show your best self, this is the episode for you . . .

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Dec 18, 2023

Here’s a common problem I hear,

You feel ready for a relationship. You’ve worked hard to improve yourself and you have high standards for the person you want to be with long-term . . . but no one you date meets your standards.

I know it can be so frustrating—but this feeling can lead to some dangerous mindsets that get in our way of finding love . . . often without us even realizing it.

So in today’s episode, I’ll show you 3 powerful mindset shifts that will help you attract the right person faster so you can avoid self-sabotage and burnout as you search for the love you’re looking for.

Excited for you to hear this one.

Matthew x

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Dec 15, 2023

Have you ever had someone come into your life, dazzle you with their initial investment and attention, only to disappear as fast as they came?

This phenomenon has been nicknamed “Love Bombing,” and it can be very painful, especially when you were led to believe it was going somewhere.

You may be asking yourself why someone would do this. In this week’s rewind episode I’ll show you…

My hope is that this episode will not only give you a sense of closure, but also help you to move past the heartache you are feeling right now if this has happened to you. I also show you how to avoid it in the future.

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Dec 11, 2023
How do you know if someone’s really over their ex?
 
Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also haven’t 100% gotten over the heartbreak of their last relationship. Of course, the first questions you ask yourself are: “Is this a huge red flag? Does it mean they are emotionally unavailable? Should I walk away?”
 
This is a really important topic in today’s episode, and my answer to this probably isn’t what you’d expect. 
 
Give it a watch to find out the signs you can look out for to discern whether someone is truly a bad bet or if they have real potential. 
 
 
Dec 8, 2023

Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with someone is?

Should you let them know you’d like to go on a date with them? And what about after the date. . .

Should you let them know you’d like to see them again if you felt the date went well but they're not being proactive about setting up another one?

Where is the line between showing someone you like them, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested?

It can be tricky. But I want to make it simple.

You may have heard me say, “Invest in those who invest in you.” But that could leave you wondering to yourself: “Fine Matthew, but so often that means I’m doing nothing because no one is investing in me! And doesn’t someone need to take the first step to invest something if anything is ever going to happen?”

It’s a valid point. I’ll show you exactly how to solve this at the end of the episode, so make sure you listen all the way through.

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Dec 4, 2023

It’s not always easy to tell the difference between friendliness, playful affection, and genuine romantic feelings.

In today’s episode, I dive into the psychology of attraction to share 31 subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that can reveal someone’s intentions.

Whether you’re flirting with someone you’ve just met, or wondering if the person you’ve been dating for a while wants to be more serious, this compliation will help you decode how they really feel!

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Dec 1, 2023

Life is too short to put off our happiness until we reach certain milestones.

It's great to make finding a relationship a goal, but the journey to getting there from being single doesn't have to be an arduous and unpleasant one.

Too many people don't realise how much joy and happiness they can find when they are single and haven't met the right person yet.

In this episode, I'll show you some simple ways to actually enjoy your single life and meet your needs when you're still looking for love.

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