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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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Dec 29, 2021

What makes a guy hooked on you from Day 1?

In this episode, Matt shows you how to communicate in a way that makes him feel special, brings out the most attractive sides of your personality, and show your attraction from a place of confidence.

These tools will help you remain high value in his eyes and if done right will even make you irreplaceable.

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Dec 22, 2021

"When I decide I really like someone, they suddenly lose interest?"

Has this ever happened to you?

Join Matt and Stephen as they explain the psychology behind someone backing off after you reveal your feelings and what types of people typically show this behaviour.

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Dec 16, 2021

It's all too common in modern dating to label someone a "narcissist". But what are the actual signs you're dating a narcissist vs. just dating a flawed person? What behaviours should you look for in the early dating stage? 

Join Matt and Stephen as they discuss all things narcissism and how to heal after a relationship with someone who damages your self-esteem...

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Dec 8, 2021

A recent article asked: "Is Your Partner The Most Annoying Person In The World?"

Matt and Steve look at this question and discuss:

- Top most annoying habits in relationships

- The mindset shift that increases our love with our partner

- What really destroys relationships

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Dec 1, 2021

Matt and Steve discuss the why people love bomb, cat dating apps, and whether you should date someone based on ONE big common interest...

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Nov 24, 2021

It's RED FLAG season!

The dating world is crazy for red flags, so we decided to sit down and talk through some of the internet's favourite red flag memes and see which ones we agree vs. disagree with!

Also, we talk about our biggest AMBER FLAGS - behaviours that make you cautious even if they aren't deal-breakers...

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Nov 17, 2021

Matt and Steve talk about:

- Breakups and how long it takes to move on

- Getting over heartbreak: men vs. women 

- The Metaverse and what it means for dating: will it make it easier to meet "The One" or kill physical intimacy?

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Nov 10, 2021

Your old pals Matt and Stephen talk about:

- Whether you should have regrets

- What kind of mistakes we regret the most

- Getting over your screw ups

- Online vs. Real life (and which causes more divorce!)

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Nov 3, 2021

Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:

- Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game

- How to escape the trap of comparison

- The value vs. the danger of talking about your insecurities (and why many men struggle with this)

- How to be attractive without needing to be perfect

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Oct 22, 2021

Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship.

We discuss:

  • Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo?
  • Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like an Ex’s Photo? 
  • What counts as micro-cheating?
  • Do you have to be over someone before you can date?
  • The importance of loyalty
  • The difference between values and standards

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Oct 15, 2021

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about why so many men are now accused of being "simps".

We discuss:

- What ACTUALLY makes a guy a "simp"

- How we should feel about men who do it

- What causes unhealthy fandom and hero worship

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Oct 6, 2021

Matt and Steve talk about how ghosting happens, and why we all can not only be victims of it, but also unknowing perpetrators...

*SPOILER alert for The Sixth Sense (I mean, it's over 20 years old, but ya know...here's your warning). 

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Sep 29, 2021

Matt and Steve sit down to talk:

  • Where trauma and bad beliefs come from
  • The effect of trauma on romantic relationships
  • Getting over pain and changing emotional associations
  • Boomer, Gen Z, Millenials + the failure of empathy

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Sep 17, 2021

It's one thing to leave the wrong person, but some people worry: "What if he becomes the RIGHT person for someone else? What if he changes and fixes his flaws and I missed out on the "better" version of him?

Matt and Steve talk about where this fear comes from and why it can be so dangerous to live worrying about someone's future potential.

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Sep 10, 2021

Some recent research claimed that over 50% of people in committed partnerships have a "backburner relationship".

In this episode Matt and Steve talk about:

- What defines a backburner relationship?

- Why in 2021 has this grown in modern dating culture?

- What is the cost of having a backburner relationship?

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If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.
 
Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!
 
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Sep 5, 2021

Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him?

Instead of being in a fun, flirtatious situation with someone who’s trying to get to know more about you, you find yourself sitting patiently while someone unloads all of their problems onto you.

You’re not alone. But there is a way out.

In this brand-new clip from a small live show, I show you how to escape the “therapist trap” with a guy so that you can keep building the attraction and tension that lead to a second date.

Matthew x

P.S. If you’d like the chance to ask me a live question—and join what is essentially a gym for your psychology, your emotions, and your confidence—consider this your personal invitation to sign up for a 14-day trial to my Love.Life Club at AskMH.com. I hope to see you there!

Aug 30, 2021

Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection...

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Aug 20, 2021

Matt did a big, scary, difficult challenge.

It was humbling. It was brutal. And it taught him a lot about friendship, confidence and doing things that scare you...

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Aug 15, 2021

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I’m about to share a recent public moment that bothered me . . .   

While watching a video clip from my recent appearance on the Pretty Intense podcast with Danica Patrick—an experience I thoroughly enjoyed—I couldn’t help but notice something: I kept saying a particular word. And not just once or twice.

Over the course of just a couple minutes, I couldn’t even keep my total in the single digits.

As someone who’s spent an entire career in public speaking and content creation, the more I said this word, the more the demons in my mind went into “media frenzy press conference mode.”

Prepare yourself: This is an honest reenactment of how embarrassment plays out in our heads. I hope this gives you a laugh and also helps you realize that you can take something like this and use it to turn a mortifying moment into an opportunity for growth.

Aug 9, 2021

Matt and Steve talk about: 

- Sex Life (again!)

- The fantasy of choosing between two different partners

- The danger of wanting to heal someone else's trauma

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Jul 31, 2021

Matt and Steve sit down to discuss:

- Why we stay in relationships longer than we should

- When we should quit the wrong relationship

- The inspiring and tragic legacy of Anthony Bourdain

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Jul 25, 2021

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about what's necessary to be a mature adult, male worries about penis size, and insecurities about ex's...

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Jul 20, 2021

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When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship.

Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak?

In this episode, I share 8 rules you’ll want to write on sticky notes and keep handy whenever you need a reminder.

As always, I’d love it if you left me a comment letting me know your thoughts - email podcast@matthewhussey.com 

Here for you, Matthew x

P.S. There’s still time to sign up for my 30-Day Confidence Challenge on July 21. These 30 days of massive momentum will set you up for an amazing end to 2021. It only takes 10 seconds to sign up at mhchallenge.com 

Jul 14, 2021

The year is half over already...what??

Join us to sit down and chat about:

  • Where love is in 2021
  • The state of dating apps
  • Body image and confidence
  • Being selective about WHO we want to attract
  • How the pandemic has changed desires for a relationship

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Jul 9, 2021

►► You are not alone. Join my membership FREE → http://www.AskMH.com

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In this clip, I’m asked what my “why” is—what motivates me to keep doing what I do.

And my answer often comes as a surprise: to help people feel less alone...

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