Matt and Steve sit down to talk about YOUR responses to "what are your top 2 non-negotiables in a relationship?"
Find out which ones we agree and disagree with!
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Dating fatigue is real.
Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship.
But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff?
In today’s episode, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one.
You’ll learn how to:
• Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them
• Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity
• Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship you’re actually in.
You’ll want to bookmark this one and relisten to it before any date.
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Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.”
But what if you feel like your best isn’t good enough? Or you’re afraid your worst will be “too much” for someone?
In this situation, it can be tempting to overcorrect—to go overboard in your efforts to impress someone until they finally discover what you’re “really like.”
In this week’s new episode, I’ll teach you how to shift from looking at yourself through a lens of self-judgment, self-loathing, and self-hatred, and instead view yourself from a place of self-compassion, self-love, and self-empowerment.
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Matt and Steve sit down to talk about ONE quality we've come to find essential in relationships. We look at your answers to the question as well and give our responses!
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There’s an ongoing debate when it comes to meeting “The One.”
Which camp do you fall into?
1) Is it all about meeting the right person—someone amazing who will remove any lingering doubts and inspire you to get serious?
2) Or is it less about “The One” and more about “The Timing”—meeting a compatible person at the right time in your life?
This week, I get to the heart of the issue with 7 tips that may change your perspective on dating and relationships.
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Matt and Steve sit down for a live session to talk about YOUR answers to advice you would give yourself from 10 years ago on dating, love and relationships!
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What will your dating life look like in the second half of 2021?
As worldwide restrictions started to ease, news outlets declared that the post-lockdown world would likely give birth to a “new Roaring ‘20s”—a bacchanalian frenzy the likes of which our generation has never seen.
While it’s true that some will embrace this openness with abandon, new studies are revealing something unexpected: many people are interested in finding a serious relationship as a result of the pandemic, because this past year has made them aware of the traits they value most in a partner.
This particular moment is critical, because many people are likely to “panic buy” their way into a relationship—throwing themselves into the first nice person they meet as soon as the “gates open.”
Thankfully, there’s a simple step you can take before a first date that will ensure you’re meeting people who are a better fit. In this episode, you’ll learn how to find a committed partner who will be excited to redefine the “new Roaring ‘20s” with you (whether or not they can dance the Charleston).
Here for you, Matthew x
P.S. Which trait is #1 on your list? Let me know in the YouTube comments on my channel!
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We’re told all our lives that confidence is the key to everything from our careers to our love lives, but few things can feel more nebulous or fleeting.
Even when we finally achieve the things we thought would give us confidence, it often slips just a little more out of reach.
Life becomes a chase of “I’ll finally feel confident when . . .” and that “when” rarely materializes.
In today’s episode, I’ll show you how to craft a confidence that’s unique to you: one that doesn’t rely on the achievement of some external goal, and one deeply rooted in who you ALREADY are.
P.S. Be sure to listen all the way to the end to discover the secret project I’ve been working on and how you can be a part of it. This one’s HUGE. I’ve never done anything like it, and it won’t cost you a thing.
Perhaps you’ve felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date . . .
Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most . . .
Or getting laid off from the job you thought you’d retire from . . .
Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego.
Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide.
The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this episode, you’ll learn how to make that happen. (Plus I’ll also share an embarrassing story of a lesson I learned whilst recording in Beverly Hills 10 years ago . . .)
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What do you think is the most overrated thing in relationships?
We look at your top answers and decide if we agree or disagree!
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It’s happened to the best of us.
The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?”
Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out.
Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around. If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s episode is a must-listen.
I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation. The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now.
Be sure to let me know which one you try first! You can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com
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"What does he mean when he texts THIS?"
In today's episode, Matt and Steve sit down live to discuss YOUR most confusing texts and what they really mean!
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What do you do when you're dating someone, but you're worried they don't appreciate the effort you make? And will they step up their standards when you move in together, or are they going to stay the same forever?
Join Matt and Stephen to talk all about standards!
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When you work on making yourself more attractive, does your dating pool narrow? Are there simply less people who will live up to your standards?
Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about standards, self-growth, and choosing people for the right reasons.
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Is it possible to mess it up with the right person? Can you miss your chance if you make the wrong move?
When you make a mistake, the worst feeling in the world is, "what if I had done things differently?"
We talk about how to get over your past failures in love and the mindset that will stop you living in regret.
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It's always a question: How fast should you move when it comes to intimacy?
The answer: it depends on what your goals are...
Matt and Steve talk about the value of inside vs. outdoor dates early on in a relationship, how to find out what their intentions are, and what kind of "progress" really matters in dating.
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Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we’re afraid we will “make waves” in the relationship.
We come from a place of fear and anxiety.
“What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?” we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer.
But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on.
If this is you, this episode is for you.
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What if you're with the "perfect" partner, they treat you wonderfully, but they're always putting off wanting kids?
In this episode, Matt and Steve talk about how to do what's really right for you, and dealing with the fight between your head and your heart.
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Today Matt and Steve sit down to answer a listener who ask whether her partner can become more affectionate. Can you change someone's love language?
Plus Matt goes on a rant about how to talk about your past heartbreaks with a new partner...
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Do you feel you’re holding yourself back in life?
Do you avoid taking risks with people you’re attracted to?
Do you find yourself shying away from new things in life, new experiences, new possibilities?
Are there things you’ve been talking about doing in your career or life that always seem to stay on the horizon and never actually happen?
It’s tough when life makes it hard for us to achieve things we want to achieve, but it’s far worse when we know that WE are the ones holding us back.
It could be through fear of rejection, failure, not feeling worthy, or simply being terrified of the unknown. And we’ll find all sorts of logical and rational excuses for why we can’t do something now, why it’s not the right time, or why we’re not capable or ready.
But the truth is, we can waste our entire lives holding ourselves back from the life we could have and becoming the person we want to be.
And that can happen in the blink of an eye. We wake up one day and realize that all that time we thought we had is gone.
This episode will save you from that fate . . .
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Empathy is a powerful emotion.
It can be a tool: allowing you to put yourself in someone's shoes, understand their struggle, and emotionally connect to their suffering.
But when it comes to letting go of a toxic relationship, this can also be a danger if we prioritise empathy over our long-term well-being.
Join Matt and Steve to chat about leaving toxic partners, deciding on when to compromise in love, and of course, bubble baths...
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I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives.
It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description more than the issues this video deals with.
I’ve done my best, but I know it won’t be perfect. It’s not meant to be. I just want to begin the conversation in our community. I look forward to learning more from all of you as I go.
Women of my community, I did not create this episode for you to do anything. It’s a message we men need to hear.
I hope you’ll help me share it with more of my brothers, because the change has to come from us.
And I’d love for you to join me in the comments to share your experiences and further educate us.
We have your back here, and we love you.
Matthew x
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There are 2 types of people from our past—distant or recent—that cause us pain in the present.
And chances are, if you can’t seem to move on from someone, they fall into one of these 2 categories...
The good news is that this episode will show you a neat trick you can do right now that will change the way you think about this person forever.
And when you do it, you’ll instantly feel at peace in a way you don’t right now. Hope you’re having a beautiful weekend, friend.
As always, I’m in your corner.
We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run:
But there are also other little skills that make a big difference.
Things that our partner may not even be able to vocalize, but that deep down in their subconscious they are eternally grateful for and that keep the relationship working and make us No.1 in their books.
Cultivate these skills and your name will be on its way to becoming an ill-judged impulsive tattoo on someone’s bicep in no time...
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