In his book Zero To One, the venture capitalist and entrepreneur Peter Thiel famously says: “Competition is for losers”.
Whether you are running a business, deciding what to do with your life, looking for a relationship – if you worry about what everyone else is doing, you’ll end up chasing the wrong thing.
You don’t need to win at everything to get a great relationship – you only need to build your unique monopoly in a way that makes you irreplaceable for the right person...