Has this ever happened to you?
You’re on a first date... and...
He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry…
But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth).
If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say:
“I’d really like to see you again.”
In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again)...
(You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating...)
It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this video is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them… and yet, they still aren’t doing it. I’m excited to read your thoughts in the comments.
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What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment?
In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was struggling with this exact dilemma.
If you’re sick of sitting in the “waiting room” and hoping for something to change, make sure you listen to this message.
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Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.
But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person?
Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their life or reserved just for you.
At some point, they might’ve even shared a generic line with you like, “I’m so rubbish with my phone,” or “I’m really bad at replying to people!” But is this really true?
In this week’s video, I not only answer these questions, but I dig into a really common mistake people make in this area.
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What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible?
Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing.
Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bond.
In this episode, Matt explains what it takes to avoid codependency and have the kind of healthy partnership that means you both flourish, instead of creating a scenario where you are excusing toxic behaviour.
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How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again.
In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us.
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What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media.
Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere.
Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media.
Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your night out with your friends.
In this week’s brand-new episode, Matt dives into the psychology behind his actions to reveal exactly what it means when someone likes your social posts (but doesn’t reach out in any other way) . . .
. . . and most importantly, what you should do about it.
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It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating.
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No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person.
And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem…
Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life.
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In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire.
These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.
Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.)
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If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship.
Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!)
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"How do I let go of someone I absolutely adore?"
What if you met the "right person at the wrong time?"
Many people have been through the feeling of someone breaking up with them because of a specific obstacle. It makes us think, if only that wasn't an issue, we would be perfect.
If you've struggled to move on from someone who seemed perfect for you, join Matt for this solo episode to learn how to finally let go and get over the one who got away.
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I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection.
What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair.
When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?”
You feel amazing. Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind.
He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you.
He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family. . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . .
It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet.
Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks. And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely.
You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real. If this sounds familiar, then this episode is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber.
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Sick of being asked "why are you still single?"
Tired of society deciding people are more successful just because they are in a relationship?
Me too.
Here's why you should never judge anyone or yourself by their relationship status, and what really matters when thinking about your current stage of life.
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Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you?
Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't?
This is called microdosing.
And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term.
In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest questions about microdosing and give practical ways to prevent getting fixated on the wrong person.
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How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently?
Whether it’s due to:
• A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier
• A family member you could’ve created more distance with
• A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted.
But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today.
And if you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this message.
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How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start...
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Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier.
We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this.
We tell ourselves that once we finally find a partner, secure a better job, or lose weight, life will be good and we will finally be happy.
But even when we achieve some of those goals, the “happiness goalposts” appear to move a little further down the field.
We can even forget that we have certain things in our lives now that 10 years ago we would’ve said were THE things that needed to happen in order for us to be happy.
In this brand-new episode taken from last week’s Virtual Retreat, I share two words that changed my outlook on this completely.
They become my compass whenever life throws something difficult my way.
With this simple shift, you can give yourself permission to start your life from where you are right now . . .
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In this killer clip with Matt and Ed Mylett, you'll learn:
• The #1 question you should ask yourself before you sleep together
• Why you should never decide to sleep with someone just because you’re afraid someone else will beat you to it
• What a GOOD reason to jump into bed with someone looks like
• How to gauge someone’s intentions
• Why owning your actions is sexy
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Matt gives some psychological and practical tips on irresistible traits that boost your attraction both in the long-term and courtship stages of dating.
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Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our own thoughts about what keeps desire early on in a relationship.
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In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation.
The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relationship?
But is this the right way to think about looking for a romantic partner? We want high standards, but what things (if any) should we settle on in a relationship?
In this episode, Matthew talks about how to practically look for love in the modern world and what it takes to build a lasting healthy relationship.
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Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:
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Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy?
Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in REAL LIFE?
Here are 7 elegant and simple ways to have a guy approach you (without feeling like you're doing all the work)...
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So...Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet!
And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious with you?
Matt explains that 11 behaviours to look for that tell you he's thinking about a long-term relationship and doesn't have one foot out of the door...
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Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone...
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